FANTASY- A Letter From Prophet Daniel

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Fantasy- "ideal guy/ ideal lady syndrome.  My Prince Charming vs Your Cinderella

Which world are you living in; the fantasy world or the real world. Many people are living in the world of fantasy that they don’t recognize real things. It even happens in the area of relationship when people have serious imaginations about their “ideal guy/lady” but later end up marrying opposite of their imaginations. The question is “what happened to their fantasies or imaginations? Why didn’t they marry the person they perceived or imagined?

\The marriage thing, and the perfect person or God doesn’t give you what you don’t like syndrome has become a serious issue which needs to be addressed. Marriage is real therefore if fantasy is associated with it, it becomes a threat. The perfect person everybody is claiming does not exist; you meet the person as a raw material then, you work it out to become finished products. He or she becomes the “perfect person” after you’ve processed (studied, sorted out weaknesses and strengths, likes and dislikes) into what you need and was looking for.

God doesn’t give you what you don’t like but your fantasies or “ideal guy” or “ideal girl” syndromes are not realistic either. How many ladies don’t want a well built, 6pack tall guy, yet end up married to an average body type guy who happens to be the man of their destiny and makes them happy.

You see, some of our “ideal person” or “this is the type I want principle” is just influenced by environment and what time and genetics have shaped us for. Some ladies want thick tall guys who are hairy sake of how their dad, brother or uncle look like and it does really influence their choice of guys meanwhile in the plan of God you need a medium/average guy who will make you happy.

Moreover, some guys want coca-cola or wide hips body shape ladies because of what they have in the family or their experience with some. All these factors lead people into the world of fantasy when a slim, cute lady could be the best to match his type.

In the end, God gives you His best, if you depend on God’s choice because every good and perfect gift comes from God and you will realize that even though it is not your fantasy, it (the person) happens to be what your innermost heart has always been searching for. The person even compliments or helps you to fulfill destiny.

NB: Your ideal person for yourself may not necessarily be God’s ideal person for you. Don’t be entangled in this fantasy that you miss your future husband or wife when they come.

Always remember God first.

Nhyira

I Will NEVER Marry

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But from the beginning of the creation God made them male and female. For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and cleave to his wife; and they twain shall be one flesh: so then they are no more twain, but one flesh” (Mark 10:6-8 KJV)

Ooops anytime I read this verse I hear wedding bells ringing loud….marriage time and it points out there is nothing like gay marriage in the eyes of God because he created them male and female not female- female and male-male so be careful. Lesbianism and homosexuality is an abomination in the eyes of God, therefore seek help if you are in that act. God will have mercy on you if you seek Him and He shall surely refine you!!

 Marriage is good with the bed undefiled. Most people have plans to get married; their wedding imaginations are so unbelievable but it gets to a point where they begin to lose interest in marriage and their imaginations die off. What at all has been making people lose interest in marriage off late?

From the scripture above, God is really interested in marriage; the two become one flesh and live together. They leave their parents and become a different family altogether; recently in-laws are really trespassing, kindly stay in your limit and stop interfering in your children’s’ marriages. The name in laws should even be changed to OUT-LAWS!

Well, I was having a chat with a friend; suddenly she said she will never marry. I was astonished and still couldn’t believe what she told me. I was about to ask her reasons for such a decision when she burst out crying. After consoling her, she narrated her story and it was really painful. A guy had broken her heart; two weeks to their wedding, the guy secretly married another lady and she heard it on that day when some of their friends who attended the wedding thought she was the bride but to their amazement it was another lady. The guy had made different wedding invitations and sent it to his family and friends. This is so absurd!!!

She was really heart-broken that she still couldn’t believe the guy was capable of doing that. Another female friend also told me she had lost interest in marriage because her parent marriage is nothing to write home about. A marriage full of pain, disgrace and emotional distress on the part of her mother: her dad keeps abusing her mum emotionally and psychologically.

Moreover, one of my male friends is not interested in marriage because of what he has witnessed in other marriages. Many factors have led people to make decisions out of the blue and it is really sad but my question is “should someone’s pain inflicted on you or the bad things you’ve witnessed stop you from enjoying your bright love future? Why should you think you’ll also go through that same experience when you marry? Everybody and his/her destiny therefore, the fact that someone is suffering in marriage doesn’t mean the same thing will happen to you.

It could be their decisions and choices that landed them into this bad fate but that isn’t your portion. You learn from their mistakes and improve upon your life and the choices you make. Marriage is good and sweet so refrain from these sayings “I will never marry” when those thoughts emerge, you should know it’s your emotions speaking to you not God. Resist those thoughts and embrace the good ones, you shall surely marry,

have a beautiful family and enjoy eternal love and joy.

Never allow past hurts and people bad experiences to deter you from marrying and having a beautiful family, your destiny is different from theirs but it all depends on your decisions and choices. Depend on God, trust Him and allow Him to direct your path and your ways shall be prosperous. Have a lovely day!!!

Always remember God first- stay blessed!!

Nhyira

I Miss Been In LOVE

Hello lovely people, may the Grace of the Lord be with y'all!
When I was in love, this is how i felt.... the feeling was mutual.

Awwww gone were the days when you used to receive that special call, messages, care and attention from a unique person but now things have changed. You keep staring at your phone if you will receive that special call but nothing keeps coming. That feeling, atmosphere and state is no more, now you are single.

Been in a relationship feels great but it has to be the right person with right motives: the one who truly compliments you. Do you miss been in love? Oooucchh I guess you do, been in love is so wonderful and special. Have you ever thought about why you are single now? About why you keep saying “NO” to those guys who keep proposing to you?

The answer is simple; it’s either you don’t want to repeat those same mistakes or you’ve discovered yourself and now you deserve the best. It could be other reasons too but whatever the reason is stick to your convictions. Don’t allow your emotions to lead you into a new relationship that you will regret for the rest of your life. Continue to take your time, relax, groom yourself and the right love will surely emerge.

Sometimes when you look at peoples’ love life, you might be tempted to say “YES” to anybody whiles they don’t deserve your love. Don’t let the pressures around lead you into making hasty decisions. The feeling is natural…. “Missing been in love” but stick to your convictions. Who doesn’t like been in love, everybody does!! The moment your partner isn’t genuine, you miss the beauty of real  love., That love turns into hate or something else.

Therefore, be grounded in your convictions and make the BEST decision for yourself and children to be. Let them have a beautiful, welcoming family that will last forever but it all depends on your decisions and choice. Accept that feeling “I miss been in love” but it shouldn’t lead you in making stupid decisions. The feeling is natural; embrace it,

never feed it to grow, let it remain just a feeling. Be wise!!

Always remember God first- stay blessed!!

Nhyira

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The Moments Shared

Hey peeps.....everyday is a new gift from God, cherish it.
Oh our soul, rejoice for thou art glad!

 

Life is precious and must be valued! Every time spent counts therefore use yours wisely. I value every moment shared with people- it feels great to have people who cherish and adore you but if no one does what do you do? Does it make you feel alone, rejected or unloved? Sometimes the moments shared with special people becomes so short that you wished you were always around them

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The moments shared with people are so golden that without their presence we feel alone and sad but the question is “do you cherish the moment you share with people? Are people of value to you? Most at times, we don’t value the people who in their little time spend with us and after they have left, we then realize how special they were.

The moments shared  should be of high value or else when they leave, we will surely feel their absence and regret not reciprocating their love. Cherish every moment you share with people, let them be of great importance to you.

Are you waiting for the person to die before you realize how important he or she was to you? It could be your mum, dad, friend, fiancee, husband, wife or neighbor who always want to draw closer, cherish and adore you but all you do is take it lightly or see it normal. Is never normal when people spend time with you, they could have spent it with other people but they chose you. Don’t see things normal, appreciate whatever people do for you.

When you don't cherish the people around you, this is how you feel when their absence begin to have impact on you!
 

Don’t wait for them to die or leave your life before you feel the impact of their absence; before you say “had I known” Appreciate them, make them feel as special as they make you, enjoy their presence and let every minute they spend with you count for a day cometh, that you won’t see them anymore. The moments shared are so unique and must be valued!!

Always remember God first- stay blessed!!

Nhyira