Relationship Is Not For Babes

hey peeps.....Great is His Faithfulness, morning by morning new Mercies we see!! have a wonderful day1!

The rate at which people are dying as a result of bad relationships make me question myself “is it right to be in a relationship at a younger age? “What at all are they chasing? Relationship is not for babes, who are ignorant, visionless and not ready for commitment, but for the matured,  who know their purpose, very wise, hardworking and ready for commitment!

 The core value of relationship is marriage so why would you want to be in one when you are just in junior and senior high schools, when you can’t even feed yourselves and buy your own clothes with your own money?

When your parents/guardians make decisions for you and you claim you’re grown to be in a relationship,  all you will do is either impregnate a lady or she gets pregnant and abort, one disaster leading to another. Teenagers have taken relationships world cup and I just marvel. When they have about 10-15yrs to get married, they are just wasting their time, resources, body and special heart on someone who won’t marry them.

Wise up youth and stop misbehaving, wait, it’s not your time yet. Just relax, serve God well and all other things shall be added unto you. Don’t rush or else you will crush. This is the moment to build your life to suit your calling and purpose than wasting it on guys and ladies whom they aren’t a better hope for y’all. As you keep on establishing yourself, the right man/woman meant for marriage will come your  path. Stop wasting the energy you need in marriage when it comes to sex, stop fornicating because after you have wasted all those energies, you will just become weak in bed in marriage.

Also, as you continue to move from one heart break to another, a time will come the disappointments you have received will harden your heart to despise all men meanwhile not all men are the same- blinding your eyes to see the real ones. Don’t get to this stage before you realize how messed up you’ve become.

Be informed, transformed and inspired by this message!!! 

Always remember God first-stay blessed!

Nhyira

Relationships are becoming like HELL

Hey peeps....it's a beautiful night, have a sound sleep.

I always tell people relationship is to build, nurture and bring out the best in YOU not the other way round. Off late people are turning into beasts, killing their fiancés and facing charges at court, then I ask myself “what’s the problem” “what has gone wrong” “what are the people lacking” I realized people are losing the meaning and importance of relationships. It’s not to fulfill or satisfy your feelings or cure your loneliness but to establish a union between your partner and you. People are getting the foundation wrong that’s why there is malice, envy, and jealousy going on between lovers.

What will the righteous do when the foundation is destroyed? The righteous can’t stand, the same way 

relationships are not lasting sake of the foundation destroyed. Eve was introduced when Adam had discovered himself, his purpose and life; so she was presented to him in other to help him accomplish his purpose. Therefore, until the man knows his purpose and has been able to identify himself, you shouldn’t dare accept them because you will just become idle your purpose in their lives is not defined due to their visionless.

 

So, do you get the picture why there is so much murder going on now in relationships? Purpose an

d identity have been replaced with pleasure and fun. You keep being in a relationship with someone who is catered for by his/her parents- why won’t he/she kill you when they suspect you are cheating on them: the little money he/she receives which he/she spends on you is becoming a waste to you thereby attacking you.

It’s better to be in a relationship with a responsible man/woman than immature ladies/gentlemen. If people will go back to the foundation of relationship (Genesis 2:21-24), then everything will be right again and relationship will fulfill its purpose on earth.

Always remember God first- stay blessed

Nhyira

To the X's- a male's view point

hey peeps...it's been a while now, i'm still facing internet challenges. Still working on it. Have a great day!!

"No matter how good you are to a lady, when you break up with her, there is nothing good she will say about you. Her emotions suddenly erase the goodness you have had or had been, and only remember the pain of break up, she suddenly equates all things done for you into favors, and all the bad issues in your relationship becomes the highlight of personality. Then she says, you didn’t deserve her but she tolerated you”!!

Is it true ladies??share your views on it!!! 
Always remember God first- stay blessed!

Nhyira

Your Life X Like Viewing The Sea

Hey peeps...it is a bright new day....make an impact in peoples' lives.

Your life is like viewing the sea; you can only see what is in front of you. There is a limit to what you can see from where you stand, but there is a lot more to view behind what you see. You only see flashes and glimpses of your destiny which makes you anxious to know more. If only you are able to move further steps, you will be able to see more.

Looking at the sea, it looks so beautiful and shinning when the sun sets, the same way when the light of God shines in your life, it makes you glitter. The palm trees hold the waves or winds of the sea, now “who is your anchor in times of troubles? Is it Jesus Christ or who? If the sea needs an anchor, so does everybody on this earth. The future is bright if only you are able to hold onto what you see or believe. 

As I viewed the sea, the inner part looks still but pressure builds up from the middle to the end; with lots of tenacity and force. As/when you are getting to the peak of your lives, then you face all atrocities and pressures, but if you are able to hold on, you get to the end safely and prosperous. Now the question is ‘how is the canoe able to sail on the sea looking at the nature of the sea?’. The sailors or fishermen have mastered and learn how to sail on it. In life, you need to learn always and master at everything you do.

Know your left and right to be able to live well and peaceful. One thing you should know is that, the canoe is not strong but it’s able to withstand the pressures on the sea; howbeit you a Christian who has the power of God and is able to command things into being. There is always a limit to what you see depending on where you stand, the only people who are privileged to see the other end of the sea are the fishermen as they sit in the canoes and boats. This shows you that, those who enjoy their destiny are the ones who are able to build their life to suit their calling, dreams, goals and aspirations and have mastered their tools of operations. 

Always remember God first- stay blessed!!

Nhyira  

A WANTING TO DO IS NOT A DO- DEACONESS COMFORT

 HEY PEEPS......ITS BEEN A LONGTIME......I'M HAVING PROBLEMS WITH MY INTERNET CONNECTION, STILL TRYING TO FIX IT. ENJOY YOUR DAY.

Is it okay to always “want to do” and not do? Wanting to know God yet do nothing to know Him? Before you can pursue anything, there should be a DESIRE. Until you desire, you cannot pursue! The intensity of your desire determines your degree of pursuing. God is no respecter of persons but those who diligently seek Him shall find Him.

How you find Him or experience Him is determined by how you seek Him. If you press to Know Him more, He reveals more of Himself to you. Moses after seeing the burning bush pressed to know more and when the Lord realized that, He revealed more to him.(Exodus 3). Not only did He tell Him who He was but also told him what He wanted to do.

Therefore, your eagerness to do something does not mean you have done it. Wanting to pray does not mean you have prayed as well as wanting to read the word or preach does not mean you have done any. A WANTING TO DO IS NOT A DO!!! 

The scripture talks about how the Kingdom of God is not in words but in POWER. (1Corinthians 4:20). Mind you, power is not IDLENESS but EFFECTIVENESS, CAPABILITY, A MEASURE OF THE RATE OF DOING WORK OR TRANSFERRING ENERGY. So, you shouldn’t lip say that you are a child of God whiles you do nothing to prove. It is not about going to church because sleeping in a garage does not make you a car. It is also not about praying, traditionalist do pray to ‘God’ but there is a vast difference between a child of God and any other person.

Please read and study more of the Word and live accordingly to it, (very important), pray always (not only when you are about doing something which needs prayer). It is not about you knowing Jesus only but more importantly, in the end, it is about Him knowing YOU. He doesn’t know you because of your mere existence on the earth but per what you do in accordance to His Will. It is never a right thing done if what you did never pleased God. Note.