A man does not really love you until he takes you to the altar#timewithPrissy

Love is commitment.Until a man takes you to the altar, he hasn't fully committed to you no matter how much attention or care he shows to you. To be in a relationship is risk taking, anything can just happen. Sometimes, you surely know it will end in marriage, but something happens and unfortunately breaks you two apart. When a man is in a relationship, it doesn't mean he is all into you until he proves his love at the altar. The moment he takes you to the altar, he has made a vow of commitment to only you, upon all the other options he had. So don't be in a relationship and think you are all he has and he can't live without you!
Relationship is the period of discovery; a period where you demand respect, you keep your dignity and stop acting like he owns you. Once he has not married you, don't think he loves you because his love is proven at the altar, when he says "upon all the ladies who attracts me, you are still the one I want to commit to". Love is always commitment, if he can't take you to the altar after years of relationship, then know he doesn't love you enough to commit to you. Therefore, stop using a relationship as a yardstick to prove he loves you. It's only when he honours you at the altar for the public to know YOU ARE HIS. Be vigilant and wise.‪#‎timewithPrissy‬campustodaynews.com

SEX IS SACRED

Let's talk about SEX
The most controversial topic I have ever encountered. Some societies frown upon discussing this subject in public and I wonder what their reasons are. If we don't talk about it, how will the people be exposed to the truth? 
SEX IS SACRED
It must be respected. It is not for fun. It is DIVINE! The only man to see your nakedness is your husband
Gen 2:25 "And they were both naked, the man and his wife and were not ashamed
The underlined word is "WIFE"
If you are not a "wife" it is not legal to have sex
Now wat is sex? Sex is a physical representation of how God relates with man(male&female).
The only way God become one with us or relate with us is when he enter man so the Holy Spirit dwells in us, the same way when you have sex with a person ...the two becomes one flesh...a bond is formed. That is why God legalized sex in marriage so you and your husband become one flesh. Sex is a spiritual act. You see when you are forced to have sex is always termed as rape or defilement, it's never termed as "sex" the same way the Holy Spirit does not force Himself on us.
The more you sleep with different people, the more you are forming different soul ties. Sex makes the two bodies form one soul so if sex is done anyhow; you have sex with a lot of people, you disrespect sex, in the near future you will disrespect your husband.
Obviously you are not linked to one particular kind of person but your soul is combined with so many spirits so you can't dedicate your life to one person. The reason why people mess up in marriage is because they were having plenty pre-marital sex and they didn't check it so it has created so many soul ties, no matter how good their husband is they are never fulfilled.
: It's like you have eaten so many delicious jollof at different places and now the one you eat everyday still doesn't give you satisfaction and you already know there are delicious ones out there so you will go out for them.Thats why some wives claim their husbands doesn't satisfy them, because they have formed soul ties with the people they slept with and they know the difference.
Your soul becomes unstable, uncommitted and unable to focus on one person. Your soul will never be stable and focused.
Sex is sacred and must be respected. If you have done it before, it's better to pray and break from any soul ties you have formed with anyone.You need to respect the act. Don't make sex a play thing.
When you feel like doing it you just do it
Naah!
It's divine!! It's a covenant
It's a spiritual bond
Romans 12:1 " I beseech you therefore, brethren by the mercies of God that ye present your bodies as a living sacrifice holy and acceptable unto God which is your reasonable service.
A living sacrifice..... daily killing the lust of the flesh, daily killing our sexual desires, not allowing it to control us.
1 Thessalonians 4:3 "For this is the will of God, even your sanctification, that ye should abstain from fornication.
SEX IS SACRED, HONOUR IT IN MARRIAGE
It is the Will of God that we abstain from fornication.
God bless and strengthen us to honour His Word and abstain from fornication! 

THE TEST OF LOVE IS NOT IN RELATIONSHIP BUT MARRIAGE*

True love is not in the tingly feelings that shoot through you when he takes your hand or in those moments when she lets you hold her a little closer.
True love is not necessarily in the moments when she cooks for you when you're on the brink of starvation or when he gets you that diamond necklace you've been eyeing since like forever.
In fact, true love cannot be fully tested until a couple is within the bounds of marriage. In a relationship, you tend to magnify only the good points of your beloved. He's funny, she's witty...etc. Marriage is the true test of the love you claim to share.
Will you be able to hold on to your "love" when the babies start coming and the curves you enjoy so much become a little more padded? Will you be able to hold on when he starts doing the little little things like leaving his socks about or leaving the toilet seat up? Or when finances start to have issues and in-laws start interfering? Will your anchor hold?
Remember that marriage is not a bed of roses. For a marriage to succeed and for true love to shine forth, there should be teamwork. Put your spouse first and treat him/her the way you'd want to be treated. Learn to let go of grudges and petty offences. Most of all,pray for your marriage! Then and only then will that true love we've heard so much about make itself manifest in your life! 💪🏽‪#‎timewithPrissy‬ #campustodaynews.com

WAKE UP!! YOUNG LADIES

As we celebrated mother's day on the 8th of May, 2016, all I could think of was "singles&unmarried young ladies". I asked myself "can young ladies be like our mothers?" can their children be able to celebrate them on mother's day?, can they really impart the values & virtues our mothers have raised us with?". 
A mother is a true reflection of her child. A mother is the teacher, encourager,pioneer and inspiration of her child's dreams & aspirations. 
A mother is the anchor,the pillar and backbone of her children.
Most young ladies lack respect, very irresponsible and not matured in handling their own lives, how much more the children they will bring on earth! What kind of values & virtues will they train their children with when all they seek is "fun,pleasure,unnecesary fashion trend,lazy-shortcut ways of getting jobs". Mother's Day on sunday was a wake up call to most young ladies to live their lives responsibly so as to become good mothers one day.
To discipline themselves so as to be able to train and direct the visions of their children one day. Mothers are God-sent; aim to be a good one, a mother your child would be proud of. WAKE UP! ladies, live a Godly life, full of Christ, purpose seeking and touching lives. ‪#‎timewithPrissy‬#campustodaynews.com

Waiting To Be In A Relationship?

#TimewithPrissy PILLS          "waitingToGrab&BeGrabbed"
As the ruby in the setting, as the
Honey in the comb
As the air we breathe, so is love needed at home
I love to tell the story, for those who know it best
Seem eager and anxious to hear
it like  the rest
I have patiently bore the crown
Of grief of loneliness
Through thorny ways but there
Lacks some belonginess
To have the purest Joy of love...
Is what i have sought from above
God who guides the future as He has the past
Has assured me of a love
That always last
But hmmm so many years by and by
Do i grieve and wipe my weeping eye
A dearie to hold hands with
Seems all but a myth
But it's not a myth anymore
I shall surely find and meet my SPOUSE

Yhh your waiting shall be over...you shall surely find your spouse but the question is what do u look out for in him/her? How will you know he/she is a potential spouse? Connect with me on facebook: Time with Prissy & Twitter: @With_Prissy and whatsapp +23320126867

STRAWBERRY

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CHRISTMAS BREAK

Great is thy faithfulness, morning by morning new Mercies we see!!! Shalom peeps.

It’s the end of the year; the good Lord has been faithful for seeing us through. So many things happened but we are still alive. We all are waiting to celebrate the King of Kings, our Lord Jesus Christ on the 25^th, how Glorious that day will be!!

Christmas is about love, thanksgiving and sharing of gifts not only to our loved ones but people in need too. As the year is coming to an end, it’s my prayer we all shall witness 2016, move from Grace to Grace and succeed in all our endeavors.

I thank God for using me to reach out to the world, impacting and touching lives through this blog. There is a lot to do for mankind but one step at a time. It’s Christmas and I want you to know, you can become whatever you desire to be if only you believe in yourself and have God- the one who bless our plans. In you is a mighty ocean that needs to gush out and overflow, don’t belittle yourself. You have a lot to give to the world if only you will believe in yourself that “YOU CAN”.

I’m breaking for Christmas, will continue blogging in the year 2016….hurrayyyyy!!!! Trust God, believe in yourself and you shall do greater exploits.

 I’m ending this year with a power-packed conference by my ministry, True Worship Sanctuary (TWS) “DOREA EXPLO CONFERENCE” to be held in Ghana from 21st-26^th December, Knust. I invite everybody to this power-packed conference.

I wish y’all the best as the year ends and I know 2016 will be Glorious and full of many great accomplishments. Be blessed as you break for this Christmas, be focused, love your life, spend time with the family and don’t forget to keep on living for Christ.

If my blog has also blessed your life, don’t hesitate to let me know. I love y’all…… Merry Christmas and A Happy New Year!!!!!!

Always remember God first- stay blessed!!

Nhyira.

Seeking For Love& Affection???

Hey peeps...... let's be thankful for the Lord is good. He has seen us through from January-December, magnify His Holy Name!!

You love, love& love and receive nothing in return; you feel like you have given out enough and it’s time to receive back. Well, that won’t happen because people are not like you. Sometimes you feel unloved, uncared for especially when you are down and you want people to love you the same way you’ve been doing for them. Hmmm you have given out so much love you now want to be at the receiving end.

Now, you feel disappointed, discouraged and hurt because what you expected from the people you love was never met. Well, I have good news for you; don’t be dismayed, sad or hurt for God’s love for you is more than what human beings can offer. Since you don’t see HIM physically, you think you need a ‘physical’ being to show you love and affection.

The enemy usually uses this pot hole as a stronghold to destroy your life. You begin to reach out, do more, just to get people to also love you!! It’s not worth it dear; the love of Jesus is what you need and since you have it, you have EVERYTHING!! The devil will always try to make you feel you lack something which you already have.

This Christmas season, don’t waste your time searching for love, for you are already loved by Jesus and that should be ENOUGH!! Stop moving from one guy/lady to another because you feel incomplete, unloved or uncared for. I quite remember when a lady called me last week and said “Nhyira I feel unloved, rejected and uncared for, my family doesn’t care at all whether I have eaten, in pain or troubled. All they do is just give me money, no calls or messages to check up on me. I keep moving from one guy to another when their love is not enough and she burst out crying”

I told her “she doesn’t need her family’s love to feel complete for she is already complete. She should start loving herself, that will build her confidence and she wouldn’t need a guy to make her feel loved. Also, if her family is not showing her love, she should teach them how to love; she should start what she expects from them, the calls and messages”. Then she began to smile J. These are the kind of situations that result some people into bad companies.

Jesus has already made you WHOLE&COMPLETE if your situation is similar to the lady who called me, He says cast all your burdens on Him, for He cares for you. Jesus loves you; appreciate His love in your life. Stop wasting your thoughts on things that really drains you….. Even if people don’t call or message to check up on you, you still have JESUS!!! YOU still have those few loyal friends who always stick by you, appreciate their LOVE and you’ll know, indeed you’re LOVED&CARED FOR!!!

You may be born into a family which is full of Crap, mischief, disunity and disloyal people; one trouble to another, no love but always hatred. Don’t worry, there is a reason for that- so that you’ll appreciate what is called “LOVE”. Focus on the love Jesus has for you and don’t allow the family mess to weigh you down. It’s really disheartening to be in a family where there is no love or care but Jesus got you, the ministry you are in and the few loyal friends you have, all gat your back!! Focus on their love& care, and you shall forever enjoy the ‘Joy’ of the Lord which is your strength.

I know one day you’ll build a happy, joyful family since you never really got that opportunity as a child. You have the power to change that bad situation in the family; don’t be like them, continue to love in your own way. Is only God who teaches us how to love through the Holy Spirit! You have to know the God of love to know the love of God.

It’s Christmas; do something new- Appreciate loved ones and stop seeking for love and affection. Don’t feel left out or alone, look unto Jesus, remember His birth& the cross and know, He cares for you even if nobody does!!! Enjoy this Christmas feeling loved, whole, complete and no more searching/seeking for love& affection- you are already LOVED!!!

Always remember God first- stay blessed!!

Nhyira.

No Child Yet???

hey peeps.....the season of Christmas brings all families together to share love, make yours count!!

Marriage is beautiful, Godly and awesome but it loses these qualities when troubles set in. Some of these troubles take away the beauty of marriage and replace it with pain and hatred. Imagine been married for just five years and there is no child yet, that’s the dilemma every couple wants to escape. Why do we keep defining marriage per children, it’s like without children there is no marriage, that’s so wrong and absurd. Children are a blessing from God so if it’s not your time to conceive, just relax and wait on God.

Many times when people marry and there is no child yet, the marriage begins to fall apart. So many questions pop up especially the woman….. Am I barren? Or is my husband who can’t produce? Is he having low sperm count? All these questions are unnecessary since it will keep weighing you down. When these things happen especially in Africa, the in-laws basically the husband’s mother starts to feed her son with bad ideas to get another woman instead of praying for them.

This unpleasant situation takes away the joy in the marriage since we keep on defining marriage per children, and the joy is replaced with sadness, pain and hate. The husband begins to blame the wife for infertility and the wife also does same. 

One thing I know is human beings can’t manufacture babies: it’s Divine. God gives children so couples experiencing this kind of situation have to unite and pray than to give in to worry. I know it is not easy but the enemy is very skillful to make you forget what you have (your wife/husband) and rather focus on what you don’t have (child). 

If you are reading this, and  going through this kind of mess, kindly awake from your sleep. Unite with your husband/wife and pray like never before. Even if the doctor has declared you can’t give birth, don’t lose Hope, the doctor is not God-He has the final Say!!! What did Hannah (1 Samuel 1) in the bible do when she wasn’t conceiving?? After crying and murmuring for months, she arose from her pain and went straight into the temple to pray to God-the giver of children.

After what she did, she conceived and gave birth to Samuel, the prophet. God’s timing is the best and as such must be respected. Husbands need to support their wives emotionally at this moment so as wives, you both need each other to survive. Abraham waited and never gave up till Sarah conceived at an old age; don’t give up into pressure and bad voices around you.

Stay focus, depend on God and your prayers shall be answered. Enjoy this CHRISTMAS knowing that ALL HOPE IS NOT LOST!!! IF Sarah and Hannah conceived so can you all. God never Fails or disappoint His children. To everything on this earth, there is time and season; it’s your TIME&SEASON NOWWW!!!!

Always remember God first- stay blessed!!!

Nhyira

How to Handle A 'Woman/Wife' Who Has Been Raped Before- Dr Humphrey

Hey peeps....hope y'all doing great!!!

For women who have been raped before, experience psychological, emotional, physical and horrible nightmares. They consistently have nightmares and the fear that every sexual activity is painful. Before they say Yes to a man to accept relationship, they have their own experience of men; every man is wicked and inconsistent because of what happened to them. The degree of hatred in their heart is based on who raped them; fathers, uncles, family friends, strangers (armed robbers, gang rape). 

The degree of pain decreases as it goes down to their peers. For a woman to be raped is almost unforgiveable; common characteristics of women raped are fear, insecurity, unforgiveness not against those people in particular but against every man. After that incident, there is no confidence, faith and believe in any man. 

They live a defensive/vulnerable life; some decide to fight back, others become vulnerable and sex addict. Whatever class the lady belongs to, they become anti-social, deviation from the normal process a lady should go through especially when they were young. In that case, they should consider social defect; some goes into drugs, alcohol, others their faith especially the Christians and embrace occultism. Others also choose to do nothing, everything goes.

Eventually, when a man wins the heart of a woman, he has to be sure who he is going in for. If he really knows he is a victim of rape, he should know what he’s going in for. But in entertaining or absorbing all the heat, the only solution that works is when the man/husband is a Christian and decide to get her born- again, the Holy Spirit heals the person’s heart(2Corinthians 5:17). Any solution which is used apart from generally accepting Christ will not work; even the therapies and advice from words do not work.

Rape is not just a sin against their bodies, but covers their rightful soul with total darkness which counseling and therapies cannot, except the Power of the Holy Spirit. Afterwards, the man/husband should adapt lifestyles that will suit her change; be willing to educate the wife about sex even before their first courtship. But once in a while, we expect the husband to take an active role literally teaching the wife life itself all over again including “why every man is not a monster but some men are just lost, revenge is not the right thing but those men need salvation”.

And most importantly, the husband must be able to exclude his wife from old friends especially those that have negative influence on her otherwise all his efforts to bring her positively back will be neutralized by negative friends’ advices. (Proverbs 4:23-26). Men handle your wives with care, love and respect.

My heart goes out to any woman who has been raped before; it’s not over, don’t give up on your life but make it better and the best. “let’sfightagainstRape”

Always remember God first-stay blessed!!

Nhyira.