How To Handle A 'Virgin' Wife In Bed

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Most husbands especially find it difficult to handle their ‘virgin’ wives in bed. It takes time for them to adapt to sex because they have been ignorant and naïve about it. You shouldn’t be too fast in breaking your wife’s virginity if you have had sex before since if you don’t break her well, she might never ever enjoy sex again.

As her first encounter, you have to take your time to open that beautiful gift, make her feel and enjoy the sex which will cause her to crave for more. Some virgins have different perceptions about sex so as her husband; you have to lecture your wife about it. 

Educate your wives on sex just like if a child is about to receive an injection, how the doctors will take their time to explain every process to them. Although it is painful, because the child knows the purpose of the injection, he/she takes it calmly for his/her own benefit, that same attitude must be applied to your ‘virgin’ wives.

Virgins are like babies, they need to understand every process you take in breaking them. No need to rush and jump on them as if they are wood; romance them first and spice out their sexual antenna/desire, then it’s time to launch into the deep. 

Husbands remember if you don’t take your time to break them, they won’t enjoy the sex for the first time and that will become difficult for y’all to get them into the mood again. As you are able to take your time to unwrap a toffee from its rubber to enjoy the natural taste of it, so should you do the same.

Husbands relax, develop new tactics, take your time and make your wives feel like the Ocean’s breeze!!!!

Always remember God first- stay blessed!!

Nhyira

Let's Talk About Sex

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Today’s post is about educating married people on sex through an interesting conversation between Nhyira&Linda.

Nhyira: My dear, do you know what the most controversial topic I’ve ever encountered is?

Linda: No, Nhyira.

Nhyira: SEX.. Some societies frown upon discussing this topic in public and I wonder what their reasons are. If we don’t talk about it, how will the people be exposed to the truth? People hide in secret places and do all kinds of bad stuffs hmmm. Now Linda, let’s talk about sex.

Linda: Nhyira, with my belief and walk with God, I know sex is only for married couples therefore any unmarried person who engages in sexual intercourse is an abomination to the Lord. God hates fornication so if you love Him, you won’t do anything to hurt Him. (Romans 12:1& 1Thessalonians 4:3). Sex is very important in marriage after the love, knowledge and understanding, you need to spice up your sex life; it shouldn’t be one-way, it can make it boring. You’ve got to learn more both husband and wife and be able to surprise your partners in bed anytime you rock. All these things help the marriage to become sweeter and nice to behold. My husband & I usually learn more just to make the marital bed exciting 

Nhyira: My dear Linda, can you believe some couples still see sex as something else, especially the wives. They need to wake up and satisfy their husbands to the core. Men need sex so as you vowed to him, you vowed to his every need therefore don’t complain when he demands for it but it doesn’t necessary mean husbands should always be on their wives for it. I’m looking for a marriage where not only the husbands are always in the mood and demanding for it, but their wives are able to read the sexual signs well and turn their husbands on. It’s not always the man should demand for it, sometimes the wives should rather call for the match; it makes the sex exciting and intriguing. Sex is good but only for married couples.

Linda: I agree with you Nhyira! Wives should turn their husbands on; rock them to be highly satisfied. Don’t always lie on the bed like how always the pestle is on the mortar but change levels. There are various styles; the doggy, boxing to mention but few, learn more and make your marital sex life lovable and interesting. Husbands don’t immediately jump on your wives like they are robots as my husband used to do, but first turn them on- the kisses, caresses, licking and sucking will make your wives groan with excitement, making the vaginal watery then you can enter them and fly higher.

Nhyira: God bless you so much my dear Linda for coming around to educate both husbands and wives on sex and thanks so much for sharing your experience with us. To the married couples, enjoy your sexual life, spice it up and make your home a better place to live and rest. Marriage is good with the bed undefiled therefore make sure you don’t cheat but will make it a point to only have sex with your wives and husbands…..find a nice way to tell your wife or husband if you are not in the mood please.

Till I post again, watch out for “how to handle a virgin in

 bed”

Always remember God first-stay blessed

Nhyira

MY SON

Hey peeps.....blessed is He who has given us life!! make an impact today!

Life is about making a change, transforming lives and fulfilling your purpose. A well-lived life is when you were able to touch millions of souls to Christ through preaching the Gospel, healing the sick, providing for the needy, guiding people to the rightful path and standing for the truth no matter what. Dr Martin Luther King Jnr, Kathryn Kulmar, Dr Myles&Ruth Munroe, Albert Einstein, all have come to serve their generation, that’s LIFE!!! They didn’t give their strength to men/women but to the changing of the world.

My son, don’t give your strength to women; moving from one to another, but use it to change lives. Settle with one woman and together you both can touch the lives of others. Don’t waste your life on unnecessary things: always be wise and vigilant. There is more to life than just schooling, graduating, and working, marrying, giving birth and building mansions.

Life goes beyond that, if you are able to put smiles on peoples’ face, that’s LIFE. You were not brought on earth not to be just self-centered but to be people-centered. Jesus Christ came to bring Salvation –reconciling us back to God and left the ministry of reconciliation for us to continue. (2 Corinthians 5:18).

Therefore, you have a part to play to win people to Christ through your time, resources and body serving the Lord. Even if you become the bank manager you have always dreamt of, you can still win souls to the Kingdom of heaven. Your lifestyle at your workplace and everywhere you be is a powerful tool in winning souls- let people see the Christ you have.

My son, don’t live a frugal life, don’t waste your money on ladies but on the poor, needy for Jesus said they will always be among us. King Solomon in the bible gave his life in marrying thousands of women but at the end, he said “all is vanity and vexation of spirit”. Be warned and live with just one woman who will make you happy and become a backbone in fulfilling your purpose and destiny.

My son, I will not always be around to correct and rebuke you, therefore pay heed to my advice as I live and continue to live with it when I join the heavens one day!!11

Always remember God first- stay blessed!

Nhyira

Don't Rush, Marriage Is A Lifetime

hey peeps.....arise and shine for thy light has come and the Glory of the Lord has risen.

The tendency at which people marry early is so absurd. Young people are rushing into marriage and I wonder if Jesus is coming next year. Why rush into something that is forever when you can have all the time to relax and make the best choice? I will rather take my time, work on myself, know and study more about what goes into it, marry at age 30 and live forever with my spouse than rush and marry at age 22 and get divorced at age 32.

Marriage is not a rush, it takes patience, humility, wisdom, hardwork, knowledge and understanding to make the best decision than concentrate on love, sex and emotions and later regret. Marriage is for the wise, humble and hardworking people not those who are lazy because it involves work. The most painful thing is to marry someone you think you love and later realize you married a beast and made the wrong choice that will be too late.

The society has painted a world where if you don’t marry, it’s like you don’t exist and loses honor in the sight of people…thus madness. Life is not about marriage; it’s about making impact and changing the lives of others. Right after senior high and tertiary schools, you find people marrying who have not yet established themselves and I ask myself “what are they in a rush for? You need to build yourself, potentials and career, then you know you have something to depend on and as you are building your career and purpose; the right man or woman designed to fit you will come your path.

 Parents who force their children into early marriages when they have no knowledge about it but sake of money and other reasons; it's really crazy, wise up and stop., the happiness of your children should be paramount  than anything else.

Most people don’t take their time in choosing their spouses; they center their criteria of choice on unnecessary stuffs and later regret taking that step or path. I am not against early marriages but it should be done right. If you have established yourself at age 24 where you have a career, worked on yourself and taken some unnecessary chaffs out, and you think you are ready for marriage why not? But even after you have established yourself at age 24 and you have no knowledge about marriage, you should take your time to study and know more about it through books, peoples’ experiences and observing what goes on before you take that step.

Get to know your role as a wife or husband at your finger tips so you don’t make anybody’s son or daughter suffer in your hands. If marriage is all about love and sex, then I don’t think there would be many divorces recently. It takes knowledge, understanding and wisdom to build and keep a marriage.

Take your time, study more, learn and work on yourself before you take down the aisle. There are certain things if you don’t tackle them and you send them into marriage; it will destroy it. Work on those bad habits; improve on your single life because your marriage is as good as your singleness. Be wise!!!

Always remember God first- stay blessed!

Nhyira