Marriage is a life long commitment,you better not make the wrong choice. The wedding ceremony is just 3 hours program which just ends within a twinkle of an eye with the realities of marriage unfolding after that. People are blinded with the beauty of their wedding ceremony that they forget what marriage really is.Marriage is not wedding as I always say.....
Wedding is the pathway that ushers one to the main door thus marriage. Many people are so obsessed with weddings that they don't take time to know and understand what really marriage is and what it entails.To be abreast with knowledge,let me tell you something about it;
Marriage does not complete people as most of you think. You must be complete and fulfilled as a person before marriage because marriage does not define the individuals rather the latter define marriage. Don't ever think you will be complete and fulfilled after marriage.
Marriage is not a surgical room that fixes people, it rather builds what already exists. So, before marriage, you have to be complete and fulfilled as a person, love yourself and build your future......Don't ever think marriage will fill the gap in you, help you love yourself and feel complete.....That's wrong!
It's because of these reasons people demand soo much in marriage and have weird expectations. If love is blind as most of you think, then marriage will open your eyes. What you feel will not keep you in marriage but what you know!If your love is based on emotions, then you will crush,your common science must work.
Feelings don't build marriage but knowledge, wisdom, understanding and hardwork does.This also points out that who you marry also matters.So, to those who are still single and unmarried, learn lessons from those who rushed into it(who made the beauty of the wedding ceremony blind them of the realities in marriage). Don't repeat the same mistakes! Marriage is a life long comitment not a 3 hours wedding ceremony.You better not make the wrong choice!Stay blessed!
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