"The PEG That Fix"

Lovely peeps, a new day, a new glory. Walk in love and understanding.

I met Uche on campus; very handsome, energetic and humble. He was always taking initiatives;a goal driven person , before we graduated he already had his media house. 

Uche is a Christian but not deep into the things of God .After school, my life turned around, i started  having a deep fellowship with God and now I'm into ministry. Uche is a business man and am ministry-oriented  apart from the difference we really click. However, Clara loves Uche, she's very committed to work and also business oriented. She manages her dad's business and very good at that but she's not a good Christian. Uche loves me but Clara loves him.

Is she the ideal one for him since she's also business-oriented ??  

Will she change once they commit? Is Uche the ideal man for me? 

Will he also commit to God after marrying me?

Many people find themselves in these tough life situations which makes them confused , sometimes resulting in poor choices. Are you also in a dilemma of knowing or finding out the "peg that fix" into the hole you have(the hole maybe round ,square or name it)? 

Looking at the dilemma the lady in question is facing, I can emphatically say she is very interested in Uche but the question is "can he really support her in ministry since their goals and visions conflict?

This is the period you make a decision which can make or unmake you. Uche is a great man who is goal -oriented but that is not enough for you since you are into ministry. You need a man who is also spiritually sound because the battles you fight are not flesh and blood but against principalities. 

Marrying Uche won't guarantee that he will become committed to God....fellowship with God is a personal spirit conviction and Clara who has the same goals with Uche but bad character also doesn't mean she will change when they both marry. If she changes because of him, she can backslide again but if she changes because she has realized her bad ways and deeply convicted in herself that she needs transformation, then that's the best way of change.

The peg that fix is the peg that won't leave you hanging  ever....finding the ideal one requires much prayers, wisdom and understanding. Uche can only marry Clara if he loves her, not because she loves him and they have the same goals. Love is mutual not conflictual.