Offlate, relationship has been the topic for discussion among most corporate ladies and women alike. Amazingly, most of these ladies are of the view that #women #can #propose #to #men." This mindset of twenty-first century ladies actually triggered me to search for the truth. My dear ladies, after a long search for knowledge and insight into this assertion, this is what I have to say concerning such opinions.
Since the beginning of creation, it has always been the duty of man to pursue. A man's pride is in his ability to find that woman who meets his purpose and ready to commit to him forever.The moment a woman proposes to a man, she loses her self- respect in the eyes of the man, he now sees her as a woman of no value and dignity.
The foundation for such a relationship(well that is when the guy accepts the lady's proposal ) is likened to that of a house built on a sinking sand which will break in no time when the storms of life hit it.
In as much as you love a man, never get low, never lose your value by proposing to him, never compromise on the principle of him finding and proposing to you... That's not your duty lady!
Yours is to keep grooming, building and establishing yourself and surely he shall find and propose to you. Again, never in your life as a lady should you propose to a man... No way! Anyone who gives you such an advice to propose to a man you love (is like a blind person and even the bible makes us understand that when one is led by a blind person you will definitely fall into a pit) because the person doesn't know the purpose and foundation of relationship and marriage. Everything started in the beginning, God being so wise, prepared Adam first before bringing him Eve... Not otherwise!
In the bible, it is written "A man who finds a wife" not a woman who finds a husband! Women, it's time to value yourselves, keep your dignity intact and stop losing yourself worth in the name of love! If he truly loves you, he will surely propose.
Sometimes you are in love with him, but it seems like you have waited for ages but he still hasn't got the courage to propose. A bold and beautiful lady like you now feels you can do that for him and also with the perception that you might lose him if you don't do it in a twinkle of an eye. That's fallacy! He will surely leave you because he didn't "find you"! A woman should never, ever dream of proposing to a man...
Your integrity is at stake. Meaning you don't know who you are and what you are made of... You don't even know your responsibility. Even when Ruth was interested in Boaz, Naomi never told her to propose to Boaz, she rather taught her how she could get his attention... By sleeping under his feet.. Take note, "not even sleeping with him" Naomi taught Ruth, for a man to find you, you need to be submissive and respectful, signifying "sleeping under his feet". Let's learn more, get more insight, knowledge and wisdom into relationship and marriage, before we start misleading people with our half-knowledge advices. #timewithPrissy @campustodaynews
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