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Thursday, 9 June 2016

A man does not really love you until he takes you to the altar#timewithPrissy


Love is commitment.Until a man takes you to the altar, he hasn't fully committed to you no matter how much attention or care he shows to you. To be in a relationship is risk taking, anything can just happen. Sometimes, you surely know it will end in marriage, but something happens and unfortunately breaks you two apart. When a man is in a relationship, it doesn't mean he is all into you until he proves his love at the altar. The moment he takes you to the altar, he has made a vow of commitment to only you, upon all the other options he had. So don't be in a relationship and think you are all he has and he can't live without you!
Relationship is the period of discovery; a period where you demand respect, you keep your dignity and stop acting like he owns you. Once he has not married you, don't think he loves you because his love is proven at the altar, when he says "upon all the ladies who attracts me, you are still the one I want to commit to". Love is always commitment, if he can't take you to the altar after years of relationship, then know he doesn't love you enough to commit to you. Therefore, stop using a relationship as a yardstick to prove he loves you. It's only when he honours you at the altar for the public to know YOU ARE HIS. Be vigilant and wise.‪#‎timewithPrissy‬campustodaynews.com

Tuesday, 7 June 2016

SEX IS SACRED

Let's talk about SEX
The most controversial topic I have ever encountered. Some societies frown upon discussing this subject in public and I wonder what their reasons are. If we don't talk about it, how will the people be exposed to the truth? 
SEX IS SACRED
It must be respected. It is not for fun. It is DIVINE! The only man to see your nakedness is your husband
Gen 2:25 "And they were both naked, the man and his wife and were not ashamed
The underlined word is "WIFE"
If you are not a "wife" it is not legal to have sex
Now wat is sex? Sex is a physical representation of how God relates with man(male&female).
The only way God become one with us or relate with us is when he enter man so the Holy Spirit dwells in us, the same way when you have sex with a person ...the two becomes one flesh...a bond is formed. That is why God legalized sex in marriage so you and your husband become one flesh. Sex is a spiritual act. You see when you are forced to have sex is always termed as rape or defilement, it's never termed as "sex" the same way the Holy Spirit does not force Himself on us.
The more you sleep with different people, the more you are forming different soul ties. Sex makes the two bodies form one soul so if sex is done anyhow; you have sex with a lot of people, you disrespect sex, in the near future you will disrespect your husband.
Obviously you are not linked to one particular kind of person but your soul is combined with so many spirits so you can't dedicate your life to one person. The reason why people mess up in marriage is because they were having plenty pre-marital sex and they didn't check it so it has created so many soul ties, no matter how good their husband is they are never fulfilled.
: It's like you have eaten so many delicious jollof at different places and now the one you eat everyday still doesn't give you satisfaction and you already know there are delicious ones out there so you will go out for them.Thats why some wives claim their husbands doesn't satisfy them, because they have formed soul ties with the people they slept with and they know the difference.
Your soul becomes unstable, uncommitted and unable to focus on one person. Your soul will never be stable and focused.
Sex is sacred and must be respected. If you have done it before, it's better to pray and break from any soul ties you have formed with anyone.You need to respect the act. Don't make sex a play thing.
When you feel like doing it you just do it
Naah!
It's divine!! It's a covenant
It's a spiritual bond
Romans 12:1 " I beseech you therefore, brethren by the mercies of God that ye present your bodies as a living sacrifice holy and acceptable unto God which is your reasonable service.
A living sacrifice..... daily killing the lust of the flesh, daily killing our sexual desires, not allowing it to control us.
1 Thessalonians 4:3 "For this is the will of God, even your sanctification, that ye should abstain from fornication.
SEX IS SACRED, HONOUR IT IN MARRIAGE
It is the Will of God that we abstain from fornication.
God bless and strengthen us to honour His Word and abstain from fornication! 

Monday, 6 June 2016

THE TEST OF LOVE IS NOT IN RELATIONSHIP BUT MARRIAGE*


True love is not in the tingly feelings that shoot through you when he takes your hand or in those moments when she lets you hold her a little closer.
True love is not necessarily in the moments when she cooks for you when you're on the brink of starvation or when he gets you that diamond necklace you've been eyeing since like forever.
In fact, true love cannot be fully tested until a couple is within the bounds of marriage. In a relationship, you tend to magnify only the good points of your beloved. He's funny, she's witty...etc. Marriage is the true test of the love you claim to share.
Will you be able to hold on to your "love" when the babies start coming and the curves you enjoy so much become a little more padded? Will you be able to hold on when he starts doing the little little things like leaving his socks about or leaving the toilet seat up? Or when finances start to have issues and in-laws start interfering? Will your anchor hold?
Remember that marriage is not a bed of roses. For a marriage to succeed and for true love to shine forth, there should be teamwork. Put your spouse first and treat him/her the way you'd want to be treated. Learn to let go of grudges and petty offences. Most of all,pray for your marriage! Then and only then will that true love we've heard so much about make itself manifest in your life! 💪🏽‪#‎timewithPrissy‬ #campustodaynews.com

WAKE UP!! YOUNG LADIES


As we celebrated mother's day on the 8th of May, 2016, all I could think of was "singles&unmarried young ladies". I asked myself "can young ladies be like our mothers?" can their children be able to celebrate them on mother's day?, can they really impart the values & virtues our mothers have raised us with?". 
A mother is a true reflection of her child. A mother is the teacher, encourager,pioneer and inspiration of her child's dreams & aspirations. 
A mother is the anchor,the pillar and backbone of her children.
Most young ladies lack respect, very irresponsible and not matured in handling their own lives, how much more the children they will bring on earth! What kind of values & virtues will they train their children with when all they seek is "fun,pleasure,unnecesary fashion trend,lazy-shortcut ways of getting jobs". Mother's Day on sunday was a wake up call to most young ladies to live their lives responsibly so as to become good mothers one day.
To discipline themselves so as to be able to train and direct the visions of their children one day. Mothers are God-sent; aim to be a good one, a mother your child would be proud of. WAKE UP! ladies, live a Godly life, full of Christ, purpose seeking and touching lives. ‪#‎timewithPrissy‬#campustodaynews.com