Let's talk about SEX
The most controversial topic I have ever encountered. Some societies frown upon discussing this subject in public and I wonder what their reasons are. If we don't talk about it, how will the people be exposed to the truth?
SEX IS SACRED
It must be respected. It is not for fun. It is DIVINE! The only man to see your nakedness is your husband
Gen 2:25 "And they were both naked, the man and his wife and were not ashamed
The underlined word is "WIFE"
If you are not a "wife" it is not legal to have sex
Now wat is sex? Sex is a physical representation of how God relates with man(male&female).
The only way God become one with us or relate with us is when he enter man so the Holy Spirit dwells in us, the same way when you have sex with a person ...the two becomes one flesh...a bond is formed. That is why God legalized sex in marriage so you and your husband become one flesh. Sex is a spiritual act. You see when you are forced to have sex is always termed as rape or defilement, it's never termed as "sex" the same way the Holy Spirit does not force Himself on us.
The more you sleep with different people, the more you are forming different soul ties. Sex makes the two bodies form one soul so if sex is done anyhow; you have sex with a lot of people, you disrespect sex, in the near future you will disrespect your husband.
Obviously you are not linked to one particular kind of person but your soul is combined with so many spirits so you can't dedicate your life to one person. The reason why people mess up in marriage is because they were having plenty pre-marital sex and they didn't check it so it has created so many soul ties, no matter how good their husband is they are never fulfilled.
: It's like you have eaten so many delicious jollof at different places and now the one you eat everyday still doesn't give you satisfaction and you already know there are delicious ones out there so you will go out for them.Thats why some wives claim their husbands doesn't satisfy them, because they have formed soul ties with the people they slept with and they know the difference.
Your soul becomes unstable, uncommitted and unable to focus on one person. Your soul will never be stable and focused.
Sex is sacred and must be respected. If you have done it before, it's better to pray and break from any soul ties you have formed with anyone.You need to respect the act. Don't make sex a play thing.
When you feel like doing it you just do it
Naah!
It's divine!! It's a covenant
It's a spiritual bond
Romans 12:1 " I beseech you therefore, brethren by the mercies of God that ye present your bodies as a living sacrifice holy and acceptable unto God which is your reasonable service.
A living sacrifice..... daily killing the lust of the flesh, daily killing our sexual desires, not allowing it to control us.
1 Thessalonians 4:3 "For this is the will of God, even your sanctification, that ye should abstain from fornication.
SEX IS SACRED, HONOUR IT IN MARRIAGE
It is the Will of God that we abstain from fornication.
God bless and strengthen us to honour His Word and abstain from fornication!
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