REFLECTIVE CHRISTMAS

Hey peeps, it's been a while. I just launched my first book " The Journey To Marriage". You need to get a copy and read, it will bless your life.

Today is Christmas, the celebration of our Lord Jesus Christ. We can't celebrate Christmas without Christ because He is the sole reason for this celebration and our lives. How's your day going?

On this day , I want you to reflect on your life, how gracious, kind, merciful and kind God has been unto you! Also, check your personal fellowship with Him, if it is stale, rekindle the fire of fellowship with Him!

Let's allow Christ to lead us always. Rest in His love.

Merry Christmas to you all!

Be Careful Who You Give Your HEART To !

It's a beautiful day peeps, focus on today and plan ahead always.

Relationship is a journey to the land of marriage which involves commitment and responsibility. Due to this, not every guy/lady is qualified for this journey because some have made up their minds not to marry or to commit to one lady/gentleman. 

In view of this , you have to be vigilant and careful in your choice of guy/lady to start this journey with. If you detect he/she is irresponsible and not committed, it's a sign of unreadiness on their part, meaning he/she is in for fun and not for the purpose of the journey.

 Any guy/lady who is not ready to commit is unworthy of a relationship. Never entertain such people or else you will end up heartbroken and time wasted! If they are not ready for a commitment, it is better for them to be single than be in a relationship and waste others time. It is even serious and sad when a lady gives out her precious body to an uncommitted guy , who uses and later dumps her.

Be vigilant ladies and gentlemen, study and accept the ones who are matured in wisdom&knowledge, responsible and committed, they can take you to the land of marriage! #timewithPrissy order for a copy of my book 

RESPECT Is a Virtue

It's weekend lovely peeps, relax, meditate and make good use of your time .

Respect is key in relationships, the basic element on which every relationship thrives. Without it, all the elements required for a successful relationship aren't important since a relationship cannot be forced to thrive without respect. 

From an architectural perspective, respect is likened to the foundation of a building, without the foundation (respect), there is no (strong) building (lasting relationship). So many relationships have broken up due to lack of respect. 

Respect means recognizing your own worth and the worth of others. When you respect your partner, it builds a strong lasting relationship. 

#timewithPrissy 

The mistakes of the OLD

Hello peeps, it's a new day, live it, love it !

David's plea

Right from birth women were taught how to treat a man; words to utter and words not to throw out. What about men? Were they taught how to treat a woman? Hell No!

I quite remember as a child growing up, my mum will always tell my sisters "don't say that, he is a man! A woman shouldn't say that to a man" but there was never a time I raised my hands on my sisters or even abused them verbally that mum said "don't do that, that's not how to treat a woman ". Men had their way right from birth and now has brought about irresponsible men in the world. 

Daddy will come home drunk, demanding for food and sometimes throw the food away but my grandparents never cautioned him or even rebuked his acts. I always remember what they told mum "he is the man, he is at liberty to drink what he wants" when mum complained about his drunkenness. 

The mistakes of the old was their failure to train men on how to treat a woman . They denied us the power to become better men in serving and honoring our women. 

I would eat, put the plate in the washing sink and leave but mum won't say anything. But anytime my sister did the same thing, mum would say "a lady doesn't leave her plate uncleaned , go and clean it. Men had been lazy since infancy, never swept, washed or even mobbed. All we hear was "it's the work of a woman" so men don't know how to take care of the home, leaving it dirty and unorganized. 

The mistakes of the old have had an adverse effect on men. Men struggle with handling women and even the house. Women were taught everything, not men! 

It's my plea because I wish I knew how to treat a woman, how to organize my home and take good care of my kids. Women suffer a lot in the hands of men because men don't know how to treat them, they were denied that knowledge and wisdom. 

Some resorted in learning how to treat women through books, social media and all kinds of movies. 

Men we need to awake from our mess and learn how to treat women. I am learning from the Bible how Abraham treated Sarah, how Isaac treated Rebecca, so wonderful, loving and amazing! Can we treat our women with respect, dignity and honour? I am asking all men to learn from the best and be the best! #timewithPrissy 

Stucked but FREE

Hey peeps, make this day count !

We live in a world where people change partners as easily as they change shoes. People shop for relationships just as they shop for clothes. Looks for his/her size, if it doesn't fit, drops it but even if they find their sizes, they use for a while and drop it when it is no more fashionable. 

Are you really yearning for a relationship?  What is your motive in finding a partner?  Gentleman, Adam was busy carrying out his purpose before Eve came, have you discovered yours?  My ladies, Eve was in God before presented to Adam, have you already been made an help meet for that man who will find you? 

Being alone is lonely, that's why people decide to pair up  but you should understand as much as two people can mean a beautiful relationship, the same way being alone can also mean the same. You will only be able to see the things close to you when you are alone.  Although all of us need to be in love, we must give ourselves time to be in a relationship with ourselves.  Do something, each day perform one thing that you have never done before, go against your normal habits to do something. Walk on a road that you have never walked before, watch the world in a different direction. This world will look different after changing these habits a little. Change one habit each day. Enjoy yourself before a relationship!#timewithPrissy @campustodaynews.com 

The ACT

Hello lovely peeps, arise and shine.

"It was just a month into the relationship, and just like a magnet attracts pins so was my lover to me. I had vowed not to touch the forbidden fruit until marriage but hmmmmm some way somehow it happened once and it continued until i had maximized my utility. Finally,  we broke up because I'd had enough of her. She didn't attract me anymore " Kelvin

"We had agreed not to have sex until marriage.Body they say "no be firewood" so of course, we cant do without the caressing, fondling, kissing. But after every romantic affair i felt soo guilty I had allowed a guy to touch me . I always knew it didn't make the relationship pure in the sight of God, lo and behold , we broke up" Gifty .

" Timewithprissy what makes a relationship pure and holy, and what can this present generation do to stay away from all these immoral acts? Dennis 

After a wonderful chat with these wonderful people, I realized how relationship has lost its main significance and importance.

One thing the youth should note is this " Relationship is not marriage(which includes romance and sex)." Romance and sex ignites the marriage, making it pleasurable as they satisfy their sexual needs" BUT relationship is for discovery, the stage in your life where you stick to one lady or gentleman , study their life (character, abilities, purpose etc) and make a decision to commit to them for the rest of your life; the gateway to marriage. 

As a Christian , your relationship must be pure and holy, pleasing in the eyes of God. Anything God hates, shouldn't be practised in your relationship . If you find the lady or gentleman attractive enough to the point it arouses your sexual desire, then stop entertaining each other in the closure, go out, stay in the open and have a healthy time . 

After sex in a relationship, it becomes easy sometimes to overlook what you don't like and can't tolerate since a covenant has already been established. Then as it leads to marriage , couples start to complain about the same things they ignored whiles in the relationship. 

Kissing, cuddling among others without sex is still immoral in a relationship since it leads to the main act called sex and not pleasing in the eyes of God ! #Abstain #timewithPrissy @campustodaynews.com

BAD NUT

Hey peeps, stay bless and genuinely love people

Have you been in love with the wrong lady/guy before ? How was the experience? Oh mehnn I guess it wasn't nice right ? You felt like being drowned in water and suffocating? The bad nut! 

Have you ever wondered why most relationships don't survive offlate? Why many break ups and countless broken hearts ? Relationship has lost its meaning and significance, it has become a game people play , whether it will work or not . 

Human beings have become more users than lovers. They use people than love them that's why you need to be vigilant the kind of person you are giving all your time to. Is he or she worth your time , love and care ? Wrong relationships drain you, makes you unhappy and unworthy of yourself! 

People have lose the fear of God , therefore freely without conviction hurt people easily! The fear of God constrain us from doing evil but our world has been prone to wickedness because many people don't revere God anymore .  

If relationships can work and produce good fruits , we need to go back to our foundation , Christ Jesus ! The motive backing every relationship is very important! 

What's your motive of been in a relationship ? Your motive will either make you a user or a lover ! Love people, don't use them for your benefits ! 

Love is DIVINE! Respect and love selflessly ! Make your relationship count ! #timewithPrissy @campustodaynews.com

The WOMB

Hey peeps, live life to the fullest, stay away from toxic people!

How happy you always are, seeing mothers carrying their babies ! How happy you will be when you finally conceive! Oh I know , that excitement of finally becoming a mother ! 

But does all these imaginations and expectations qualify a person to be ready for motherhood? Is motherhood only about giving birth? 

To be a mother , takes a lot! It requires sacrifice , patience and much love! The ability to forgo what you like at the expense of yours, body changes , sleepless nights among others .

Motherhood is a responsibility, and a blessing too but to give birth unprepared is a burden ! Be ready for it , spiritually, physically , emotionally and financially. Think about that child's future and make a good decision . If you can't make life better for that child, then wait ! Your womb is a blessing , don't make it produce burdens ! #timewithPrissy @campustodaynews.com

Uncertainty

The beauty of a day proves how much you should value Life in you ....enjoy your day peeps with this piece.

You need to define yourself or else people will define you and you might accept their definition of you! It's very important as an individual to know who you are and where you are going in this life ! 

The ability to know yourself is a sure way of discovering your destiny and living a life of fulfillment. It helps you in making great decisions that ends in great outcomes.  

As you discover your purpose, likes and dislikes, what you can and can't tolerate, the kind of man or woman you can spend the rest of your life with, you won't move from one relationship to another easily , relationships won't become like shoes which you easily change often. 

It will make you grounded , matured and stable to live with just one person. Know yourself before you propose or accept any man or woman in your life! Uncertainty leads to failure and waste of time and life! #timewithPrissy @campustodaynews

Water In The Pipe

It's a lovely day peeps, make it count.

After a powerful service,  a lady approached me and asked , "timewithprissy,  please when is the right time to be in a relationship?

I sighed! wondering why i sighed? Actually it is because most of the youth have a misconception about when to start a relationship and this has resulted in many lives being ruined. This was my reply to her question:the issue is not when to date whether today or tomorrow but it's about

" does he have similar purpose like yours?

 "*is he worth your price* ? 

*Is he worth your happiness?

*Can he give you a peaceful home ?*

Can he protect and make you safe ?

Is he spiritually, financially and physically matured to handle the family?

Are you overwhelmed by my answer ?............The truth is all these virtues count because marriage is a life time . Knowledge and wisdom is very important when you want to embark on this long journey. Get to know before you start . Give yourself time to understand what you want to get yourself into before you even make plans to accept him . 

It is unfortunate that we are always blind to this aspect because we mostly concentrate on our emotions. The water in the pipe we never tap from!

Accept someone who can make you enjoy life to the fullest , always putting smiles on your face , and even in tough times , makes you feel safe and secured ! #timewithPrissy @campustodaynews.com

BEAUTY OF A NEW MONTH

Hey peeps.....we made it to the laSt month of the year 2017

The beauty of this new day has set the pace for greater achievements and outstanding success in every aspects of our lives! Every new month is a new page or chapter of life, giving us the opportunity to write our own success and victories, and overcoming every challenges and setbacks drawing us back to nothing! 

It's a beautiful day, the last month of the year -DECEMBER 

Jubilate, Rejoice, Be Happy and Joyful for you made it amidst the storms of life! 

Rule , conquer and reign in this new and last month of the YEAR 2017 

Let's crossover to 2018 strong, energetic, powerful, wealthy, healthy and lovely 

Happy last month 2017 😊🙌🏻👍🏻