"It was just a month into the relationship, and just like a magnet attracts pins so was my lover to me. I had vowed not to touch the forbidden fruit until marriage but hmmmmm some way somehow it happened once and it continued until i had maximized my utility. Finally, we broke up because I'd had enough of her. She didn't attract me anymore " Kelvin
"We had agreed not to have sex until marriage.Body they say "no be firewood" so of course, we cant do without the caressing, fondling, kissing. But after every romantic affair i felt soo guilty I had allowed a guy to touch me . I always knew it didn't make the relationship pure in the sight of God, lo and behold , we broke up" Gifty .
" Timewithprissy what makes a relationship pure and holy, and what can this present generation do to stay away from all these immoral acts? Dennis
After a wonderful chat with these wonderful people, I realized how relationship has lost its main significance and importance.
One thing the youth should note is this " Relationship is not marriage(which includes romance and sex)." Romance and sex ignites the marriage, making it pleasurable as they satisfy their sexual needs" BUT relationship is for discovery, the stage in your life where you stick to one lady or gentleman , study their life (character, abilities, purpose etc) and make a decision to commit to them for the rest of your life; the gateway to marriage.
As a Christian , your relationship must be pure and holy, pleasing in the eyes of God. Anything God hates, shouldn't be practised in your relationship . If you find the lady or gentleman attractive enough to the point it arouses your sexual desire, then stop entertaining each other in the closure, go out, stay in the open and have a healthy time .
After sex in a relationship, it becomes easy sometimes to overlook what you don't like and can't tolerate since a covenant has already been established. Then as it leads to marriage , couples start to complain about the same things they ignored whiles in the relationship.
Kissing, cuddling among others without sex is still immoral in a relationship since it leads to the main act called sex and not pleasing in the eyes of God ! #Abstain #timewithPrissy @campustodaynews.com
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