The measure of a man's love is his ability to watch only one channel without considering the rest

Hello peeps, it's a bright new day, shine.

   

  There are so many interesting programs on television but one thing is,  you choose what you want to watch. Amidst all the interesting programs; you watch one program at a time, even when you decide to watch different programs at a time, you miss the others the moment you change the channel. 

Therefore it's always a choice you make to stay glued to one channel no matter how interesting or attractive the other programs are. Your ability to watch one channel no matter how boring it becomes sometimes proves how much you love it. 

Now linking this to relationship or marriage, men are moved by sight.  For a man to be able  to stay connected to a woman upon all the beautiful and gorgeous women they come across, definitely is a proof of their love for you, never take it for granted! 

 So, if a man can withstand all temptations from other women just to still commit to only you, then is a proof of love! Be blessed! #timewithPrissy #campustodaynews.com

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Honey In The Bee

Hey peeps, it's a new day, a new week, live it to satisfaction.

  "With the hussles and tussles in relationships, I just want to stay in my corner, no wahala, no disturbances", said Abigail. 

Afia chips in, "I can't do without a relationship, to me it's as important as the breathe of life,I need it to survive. I just can't live alone, I need a guy to make me feel complete" 

Then comes Michael, " with the way relationships and marriages have become, I don't think there exist faithful partners, guys I think I just have to obey the order of the day; hit&run, no commitment". As the conversation kept moving, Elijah asked "why did God take the rib of Adam to create a female, does it mean one need a rib to grab?  They all laughed.  

What's your take on his question?  Any reply for Elijah is welcomed.   

Just as honey is found in bees so is a woman found in man.  For relationship to exist, there need to be a man and woman.... I will always say God never instituted lesbianism and homosexuality so I don't recognise them as relationships.  You see, even as sweet as honey is, you have to take a risk to get it out of bees who can really be of threat to your life.  

One needs careful skills and ways to get these bees to extract honey from them, the same way you need a good foundation to start your relationship. 

The fact that people do all kinds of bad stuffs in relationship doesn't mean you don't have to grab or you have to do "hit&run", there are faithful people out there.

As a lady you don't need a guy to feel complete, that makes you a worthless and valueless lady because every lady is unique and special in her own way, you have to value yourself first and be complete in character,word,work to mention but few before you add a guy to your life.  

Do you need ribs to grab?  Well, after Adam was created, he had to wait for sometime before his rib was removed, then Eve came, meaning the ribs had to mature. The rib here signifies maturity in age, wisdom, knowledge, financially stable, ready for marriage! 

How would you know your other rib is created? The Lord God took the man and put him in the garden, and the Lord God said " it's not good that man should be alone, I will make him a helper comparable to him. Now let me connect the two. The first means, Adam did not depend on himself(He was being guided by God). The second means at the right time God himself will speak in your life, he will declare that someone must come. 

Then the Lord caused a great sleep to fall on Adam, if you try to do things your own way, especially in relationships, you toil and struggle much, becoming weary and even break up sometimes but depending on the Lord, he causes you to even sleep, relax and he does the search and preparation for you. #timewithPrissy @campustodaynews

Obedience Is Better Than Sacrifice

Hey peeps, this is the day God has made, let's rejoice.

Most times you hear Christians saying this common adage"God first" but do we really practice it in our everyday lives. Do we really put God first in everything we do? Is God really the centre of your life, business, marriage, children, family to mention but few.

We are quick to say God first than practice. We lack power and value off late due to our inability to put God first in all things. We are sad to lose friends who make us go astray than to obey God's words. We are quick to make our family proud of us by accepting the job that leads us to corruption than obeying God's word which wanted you to start something on your own .

We hate small beginnings which will later prosper and flourish than what's already made on wrong foundations. We are afraid to lose our boyfriends and girlfriends by compromising on our Godly values more than  God's covering.

Don't be Saul who decided to please his soldiers by reserving some of the things God told him to destroy all. And that's what is happening in the body of Christ. We are quick to please and worship our men of God more than God himself. You will hear God clearly saying "don't go" but not going will make you lose your contract, friend, fiancee etc so we choose to disobey God's word all the time.

Obedience requires sacrifice and that's what we fall short now as Christians. Learn to obey God more than any human being on this earth. Once God has spoken, let it be enough for you. Because His word is truth and light!
This day, God is drawing your attention back to Him, obey than sacrifice. Place value on His Word! If you indeed love Him, you will obey His commandments.

Stand for what's true, pure, honest. We are to sacrifice those people who make us disobey God, this world would be a better place and Christians will exact power and influence this world positively. Because we keep compromising our Godly values, we lose the power to rule and reign.

Meditate on this message and let God direct you always . Love God enough to let go anything or anyone that stands in your way with Him. Be blessed. Remember"God first" requires sacrifice always.

The beauty of a wedding ceremony blinds people of what marriage is

Lovely peeps, as the curtains draw for today, don't forget to thank God for seeing you through this day .
   

Marriage is a life long commitment,you better not make the wrong choice. The wedding ceremony is just 3 hours program which just ends within a twinkle of an eye with the realities of marriage unfolding after that. People are blinded with the beauty of their wedding ceremony that they forget what marriage really is.Marriage is not wedding as I always say..... 

Wedding is the pathway that ushers one to the main door thus marriage. Many people are so obsessed with weddings that they don't take time to know and understand what really marriage is and what it entails.To be abreast with knowledge,let me tell you something about it; 

Marriage does not complete people as most of you think. You must be complete and fulfilled as a person before marriage because marriage does not define the individuals rather the latter define marriage. Don't ever think you will be complete and fulfilled after marriage. 

Marriage is not a surgical room that fixes people, it rather builds what already exists. So, before marriage, you have to be complete and fulfilled as a person, love yourself and build your future......Don't ever think marriage will fill the gap in you, help you love yourself and feel  complete.....That's wrong!

It's because of these reasons people demand soo much in marriage and have weird expectations. If love is blind as most of you think, then marriage will open your eyes. What you feel will not keep you in marriage but what you know!If your love is based on emotions, then you will crush,your common science must work.

Feelings don't build marriage but knowledge, wisdom, understanding and hardwork does.This also points out that who you marry also matters.So, to those who are still single and unmarried, learn lessons from those who rushed into it(who made the beauty of the wedding ceremony blind them of the realities in marriage). Don't repeat the same mistakes! Marriage is a life long comitment not a 3 hours wedding ceremony.You better not make the wrong choice!Stay blessed! 

Covered, but NAKED

Hello beautiful peeps, we are heading towards weekend, make sure you achieve at least 50% of what you wanted to do this week.

It is said that men are moved by sight. Yes, this is an undisputable fact but it is soo sad to know that many ladies think their body is all that a man  looks for in a woman. 

Why is it always he will "chop" the body to his satisfaction? Why is it that after been satisfied with the body, he leaves you? 

Let me shock you ladies, he looks for something more, something that will keep him moving amidst all life challenges. I am always amaze when ladies flaunt their bodies in "naked attires" just to entice men. It is not the body that will keep him, what the body does is that it only attracts (it is not naked bodies that attract decent guys but a well covered body). 

Do you know what moves a man?  What keeps him committed?  What makes him faithful? 

Your intelligence, smartness, respect,sense of humour and sincerity. Every man needs a woman they can reason with, share ideas, help build his vision and goals, not the body that brings only sexual satisfaction.

Dont be a "choppable lady" the moment that men see you, they want to have sex with you. Be a lady of honour, integrity, a lady every man wants to keep forever, a lady a man can trust and share all his visions and ideas with. 

Its enough! To be naked is fashion, really? Then don't put anything on the body at all than to wear something that exposes your sensitive part and call it fashion. If you want to be braless, dont wear anything at all at that part...just expose it openly. You hide behind fashion to misbehave and dress indecently. You see ,always your conscience makes you feel uncovered so sometimes you see some people trying to pull their short dresses up ,others pulling their top up to cover their breast...then why did you wear it in the first place? To be decently dressed shows maturity and the rate at which you respect your body and self. Cover up ladies, cover your precious bodies!!! 

"The PEG That Fix"

Lovely peeps, a new day, a new glory. Walk in love and understanding.

I met Uche on campus; very handsome, energetic and humble. He was always taking initiatives;a goal driven person , before we graduated he already had his media house. 

Uche is a Christian but not deep into the things of God .After school, my life turned around, i started  having a deep fellowship with God and now I'm into ministry. Uche is a business man and am ministry-oriented  apart from the difference we really click. However, Clara loves Uche, she's very committed to work and also business oriented. She manages her dad's business and very good at that but she's not a good Christian. Uche loves me but Clara loves him.

Is she the ideal one for him since she's also business-oriented ??  

Will she change once they commit? Is Uche the ideal man for me? 

Will he also commit to God after marrying me?

Many people find themselves in these tough life situations which makes them confused , sometimes resulting in poor choices. Are you also in a dilemma of knowing or finding out the "peg that fix" into the hole you have(the hole maybe round ,square or name it)? 

Looking at the dilemma the lady in question is facing, I can emphatically say she is very interested in Uche but the question is "can he really support her in ministry since their goals and visions conflict?

This is the period you make a decision which can make or unmake you. Uche is a great man who is goal -oriented but that is not enough for you since you are into ministry. You need a man who is also spiritually sound because the battles you fight are not flesh and blood but against principalities. 

Marrying Uche won't guarantee that he will become committed to God....fellowship with God is a personal spirit conviction and Clara who has the same goals with Uche but bad character also doesn't mean she will change when they both marry. If she changes because of him, she can backslide again but if she changes because she has realized her bad ways and deeply convicted in herself that she needs transformation, then that's the best way of change.

The peg that fix is the peg that won't leave you hanging  ever....finding the ideal one requires much prayers, wisdom and understanding. Uche can only marry Clara if he loves her, not because she loves him and they have the same goals. Love is mutual not conflictual. 

Poisonous Honey

Hello peeps, hope y'all doing great? Have a bless day and don't forget to support people.

One's heart sinks deep in the ocean of sorrows and pains as what seems to be sooo sweet turn sour. The beauty of a new day  becomes a nightmare for many. Love is no more the sweetest thing but a poisonous honey.

 Love has become unbearable and a pain in the neck for people.Is it really possible to have the best of things without pain? Can love ever go back to its realness? Can relationships go back to its original state of peace and harmony? Can people really love unconditionally? 

What is your take on love; can we love and not expect anything in return? Can people really love genuinely? 

Can a poisonous honey regain its state of sweetness and goodness?can love function in its order of purpose again?Sometimes you ask yourself," is it wrong to love?" 

I always marvel when I see people shed tears as their honey become poisonous!what should bring life rather leads to death.Love has been misunderstood and misinterpreted so now people rather hurt others in the name of love. People rather die due to this poisonous honey.

Honey brings a taste of good feeling, strength, and, self satisfaction but now only poisonous honey reign  in the lives of lovers, causing mischief, pain, death and shattered lives. 

 Can we love right when our hearts are full of selfish deeds? Remember love is about sacrifice, tolerance, respect and commitment. 

It's time to move from our state of poisonous honey into a state of sweetness.. Love with a pure heart and a good conscience 

The ROOT _Elisa's Advice

Hey peeps, it's a new week! Do what you can to stay positive and relevant.

I wasn't a fun of relationship, all I wanted in life was to enjoy the company of myself, no disturbances,no wahala,no emotional trauma! But the question is, did I succeed? Can a person go against the natural order of life? 

Love is sooo beautiful and special but your choice will determine its outcome. I was in love some years ago, he became the center of my world. I worshipped him so much,my King,my everything!. Hmmmm, but sometimes we meet the right people at the wrong time, our timing must always meet the timing of God. 

He was good, kind and very Godfearing but was very naive about relationships. As the word of God makes us understand vividly that for "lack of knowledge" my people perish,so did our relationship suffer because we knew little or nothing about relationship. 

It was our first time in a relationship so we didn't know a lot, breaking the hearts of each other, unnecessary fights, immatured attitudes among others. The relationship suffered a lot of pain at the end we had to call it off. 

One truth is the people you never reached the ultimate goal with thus marriage doesn't always mean they were not the ones  for you but sometimes ignorance, immature attitudes and unnecessary arguments can destroy what is meant to be. When the heart bleeds, it brings memories of the past, had I known they say is always at last. Get all the knowledge you need now to shape your life and relationships leading to marriage! #timewithPrissy @campustodaynews.com

Keep Your Hope Alive

It's a beautiful day, full of life and hope. I don't know what you are going through right now but keep your HOPE alive. Life is a battle, until you see VICTORY, don't be distracted by disappointments, rejections, failures to give up.

Keep trusting, keep pushing, keep believing and you shall get there. Life can be so tough that you just know you can't push anymore but that's when you need your HOPE alive to keep you standing.

You may be mourning your mother, sister, brother, cousin, grandmother, best friend, colleague among others but just know after the tears, get up and shine. Losing the people we love is very painful but it shouldn't give you the license to give up on your life. Rather pursue your dreams to make them proud of you as they watch you from heaven.

I'm mourning my mum and grandmum but life still goes on. Christ in YOU, the Hope of Glory. No matter your pain today, I'm encouraging you to step up and shine. I'm encouraging to get up from your bed and start living life again. Don't be depressed, make them proud of you.

Life is a gift from God, live it well. Pain sometimes stir up our thirst to finally succeed so the devil will ever regret touching our loved ones. Go to God and seek His strength. He loves us so much. Be rest assured He won't leave you nor forsake you.

CHEST OF WISDOM

Weekends serve as a resting moments for a lot of people. As you rest today, reflect on your life, flood all the attitudes that didn't add value to your life and start next week with new good attitudes my lovely peeps.

Right after a serious broken heart, many people do not take their time but immediately jump into another one. People don't take their time to know what went wrong in the previous relationship so as to better the new one they get themselves involved in. 

Do you move from one relationship to another because you always need someone around you?  Are you the type that can't just stay single for just a moment?  Without a lady or gentleman, do you feel incomplete and incompetent as a human being?  What's your take on singleness?  Is singleness a disease? 

Treasure every moment of singleness, because it's that time you are on the training grounds-rehearsing over and over again just not to make an awkward mistake in the real deal(marriage).

The times you feel lonely and want to talk to someone sooo badly, or be cuddled in the arms of another will always be present in whatever stage of relationship you find yourself. How you deal with it, with a sense of maturity as a single person, proves how far you will go in your married life.

The crushes you have are not going to stop once you get married.The truth is that you will still meet nicer, more beautiful and attractive people.How best you will handle them depends on the training you are going through as a single person.

Singleness or celibacy is not a moment of freedom and extravagance. It is the stage of building a very strong foundation(maybe of a very solid rock and not that of a sinking sand) for a successful marriage. #timewithPrissy @campustodaynews 

HELL NO

Hey peeps, it's a beautiful day, make it count!

Offlate, relationship has been the topic for discussion among most corporate ladies and women alike. Amazingly, most of these ladies are of the view that #women #can #propose #to #men." This mindset of twenty-first century ladies actually triggered me to search for the truth. My dear ladies, after a long search for knowledge and insight into this assertion, this is what I have to say concerning such opinions.

Since the beginning of creation, it has always been the duty of man to pursue. A man's pride is in his ability to find that woman who meets his purpose and ready to commit to him forever.The moment a woman proposes to a man, she loses her self- respect in the eyes of the man, he now sees her as a woman of no value and dignity.

The foundation for such a relationship(well that is when the guy accepts the lady's proposal ) is likened to that of a house built on a sinking sand which will break in no time when the storms of life hit it.  

In as much as you love a man, never get low, never lose your value by proposing to him, never compromise on the principle of him finding and proposing to you... That's not your duty lady!  

Yours is to keep grooming, building and establishing yourself and surely he shall find and propose to you. Again, never in your life as a lady should you propose to a man... No way! Anyone who gives you such an advice to propose to a man you love (is like a blind person and even the bible makes us understand that when one is led by a blind person you will definitely fall into a pit) because the person doesn't know the purpose and foundation of relationship and marriage. Everything started in the beginning, God being so wise, prepared Adam first before bringing him Eve... Not otherwise! 

In the bible, it is written "A man who finds a wife" not a woman who finds a husband!  Women, it's time to value yourselves, keep your dignity intact and stop losing yourself worth in the name of love!  If he truly loves you, he will surely propose. 

Sometimes you are in love with him, but it seems like you have waited for ages but he still hasn't got the courage to propose. A bold and beautiful lady like you now feels you can do that for him and also with the perception that you might lose him if you don't do it in a twinkle of an eye. That's fallacy!  He will surely leave you because he didn't "find you"! A woman should never, ever dream of proposing to a man...

Your integrity is at stake. Meaning you don't know who you are and what you are made of... You don't even know your responsibility. Even when Ruth was interested in Boaz, Naomi never told her to propose to Boaz, she rather taught her how she could get his attention... By sleeping under his feet.. Take note, "not even sleeping with him" Naomi taught Ruth,  for a man to find you, you need to be submissive and respectful, signifying "sleeping under his feet". Let's learn more, get more insight, knowledge and wisdom into relationship and marriage, before we start misleading people with our half-knowledge advices. #timewithPrissy @campustodaynews

GREATNESS

Hey peeps, the brightness of this new day is a sure sign God is not done with you yet. Greatness lives and awaits you if only you will see it , you will live it.

A lot of people I encountered looked down on themselves, had low self -esteem and thought success only comes from being associated with the best schools, best ORGANISATION, best churches among others. I told them that's partly true because success comes from within . 

Success begins when you discover who you are and where you are going in this life ! It begins when you take that first bold step in discovering and fulfilling your dream. After this step , that's when you become the LIGHT even the best schools, best organisations, and the best churches want to partner with! GREATNESS is in everyone!

 Now these people are shining in every facet of their lives! Greatness gives birth to Greatness! Their lives have changed with just lifting them up with the right knowledge, right wisdom , right understanding etc WE RISE BY LIFTING OTHERS! Be the VOICE! Be the HOPE! Be the LIGHT! And Help others SHINE #timewithPrissy 

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Your WOMB

Hello peeps, waking up to see a new day is a sign of blessing from the good Lord. Instead of worrying about all that you need Him to do for you, thank Him instead for giving you the gift of life. The rest will follow.

A mustard seed teaches a great lesson. As small as this seed is, it produces the greatest and biggest tree. God being so wise made the womb of a woman just like that. The womb of a woman as we all know is to carry babies and bring them forth into the world to accomplish their God given purpose. 

These babies as small as they are grow to become great people in society. So, I am not wrong to say the womb of a woman carries great destinies.

But it is so heart breaking what ladies of our time are using their precious wombs for. Many are killing  great destinies all in the name of I am not ready to be a mother. This reason given by many culprit amuses me. If you are not ready then stop satisfying your sexual desires.

 Sex is not only for pleasure but procreation as well. My dear ladies, as you enjoy the honey don't get stuck in the moon which at the end results in pregnancy. Abortion is not the termination of babies but the prevention and  destroying of destinies.

 Women...it's time to be responsible for any decision and action you take...bear  consequences of your actions. #timewithPrissy   @campustodaynews.com

Focus On The Right Things

Hey peeps, be rest assured you can make it no matter what you are going through.

Losing focus always starts with being concerned about peoples' perspective of you, whether they would like what you want to achieve or not but my question is "when did peoples' opinion of you became your measuring tool of fulfilment? If you await for everyone's approval, then you can't even kill a mosquito, others will be like "it's too tiny to kill" "it's not harmful", "just a bite" but at the end , only you know the extent of its danger to your health and life therefore if you have a vision , pray , seek God's direction and move with it. 

A lot of times you would be condemned and misjudged which will really break your spirit, but you don't need to explain who you are to people who are only committed in misunderstanding you always. In life, nobody owns your existence, only God! You've got to make it right with God, that's what matters ! What's been said at your back should always remain  where it was been said " at your back "  live life to the fullest!  #liveLife #fulfillDestiny

The Strong Engine

It's a lovely day peeps, live life to the fullest!

Anytime I visit car dealers, one common but important question most buyers ask "Is the engine strong? Every car needs a strong engine, no matter how nice the car is, the engine determines its functionality whether it will last long and can travel fast or not. 

The strong engine symbolizes your heart. The issues of life lies in your heart, due to this, a heart that is soft, easily hurt, and full of mistrust, dishonesty and can't endure pain shouldn't be used for the journey of relationship and marriage for it does require a strong heart; full of compassion, love, patience, trust, tolerance and endurance. 

People change with time, it doesn't happen in a blink of an eye therefore you need full capacity to tolerate the things, attitudes and behaviors you dislike as you wait patiently for change. If you can't do this, then you are not ready for a long lasting relationship leading to a committed marriage. You must train your heart to be strong; to learn how to overlook and ignore certain attitudes, when to speak and the moment you've to be silent#liveLife #fulfillDestiny

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THIRD PERSON SYNDROME

Hello peeps, in the moment of grief, always remember you can't abandon your purpose in life. You may be going through a lot right now, but it's your passion that will keep you moving, never abandon it. I've lost a great woman yesterday, but life goes on. I've to continue to make her proud even as she will be in the heavens.

BE CAREFUL WITH THE THIRD PERSON* a friend's message.

"I did a study on Genesis Chapter 3, where the fall of man is recorded. I made an observation which is still relevant in our lives and want to share.

Adam and Eve had lived in the Garden for some time,probably sitting, going round, playing under the "tree" without any problem until "the snake" which I call "THE THIRD PERSON" appeared, and things changed.

We may be comfortable with our partner's lifestyle, time of coming home after work,how much he gives as "chop money" for a longer time without complaints until a 3rd person start drawing your attention, making you look stupid, "wiseup", cheated etc,then your attitude begins to change.

The 3rd person could be friends, family, church member, Pastor, even a program you listened to or watched. Whoever and whatever be your 3rd person, kindly do critical analysis on the information you received, looking at the advantages and disadvantages of your actions,projecting into the future implications before you act. 

Remember that not all 3rd person information or messages are meant for your good. Adam and Eve lost their relationship with God after the visitation of the " THIRD PERSON"

The Bible ask us to be swift to hear but slow to talk and act. I love you but God loves you more".

Take The Shades Off

Hey peeps, have a fruitful day.

To know your self-worth is a key to personal development. Ladies who don't know their self- worth settle for anything that comes their way. Until you get what you've dreamt of, achieved that goal, and attained your highest level of spiritual maturity, don't settle for safety! 

Ladies can achieve a lot in life if only they will invest time in building their self-esteem, confidence, character and understanding their identity as women. To settle for what's available is as deadly as fire, you will surely get burnt since it comes with pain and regret. 

Don't settle for availability, push till what you've dreamt of becomes reality! It might take years but wait patiently for it. The best things take time and you can only have the best like gold through patience and perseverance.Stand for something or else you will fall for everything. Always remember this, you attract what you are, if you want integrity, be one! If you want friendship, be a friend first! If you want to be pure, practice. 

There's nothing God can't do but do your part too. Get to know yourself, be grounded, have values so you don't fall anything that comes your way. Never accept what you dislike, it doesn't cost to say "No" or "Yes". Be disciplined, always make sure God is pleased with you and what you do! People always have opinions, let it remain as such! #KnowYourSelf-Worth #DontSettleForSafe #timewithPrissy @campustodaynews 

Be Prepared

Hello peeps, every day is a blessing. Make it count.

Relationships should end in marriage ultimately. Therefore, one should be prepared well enough for all the challenges of relationship and have a motive of marriage at the end. In preparation, you have to do a good self-examination to know your personality and usual temperament. 

This among other things would give you an idea of whom you want to live with for the rest of your life. Additionally, praying before going out to search for a partner helps a lot. It helps to avoid potentially bad relationships and draw the right person close in sharp perspective .

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WHEN WILL YOU MARRY?

Hey peeps, hope y'all having a great day.

As I laid on the sofa, this common but popular question asked by many friends, family and acquaintances kept running through my mind . I believe you are wondering what is it , the question is "WHEN WILL YOU MARRY? " I guess you're laughing now as a man by hearing it but as a lady you just sighed "hmmm" 

We live in a society where marriage is the measuring tool of SUCCESS for ladies. Until you get married, you are nothing in the eyes of our elderly people. You can win awards in your career and even graduate as the best student, they won't be pleased until they see your wedding invitation. Interesting right? 

Due to this, most ladies are rushing to get married and in six months or a year, you mostly hear "DIVORCED! "

A lady is not complete without a man. Really? Which part does the man add to the woman to make her complete after marriage? I believe and know marriage is a blessing from God! It's an honor from Him to us and therefore we need not listen to the society on their take on marriage . Build your life, be grounded and keep your faith, when it's your TIME, God will honor YOU! 

As a lady, you meet a gentleman who you know can't take you far in life. He can't be a good father and husband but with the FEAR of not getting another man to propose to you, you accept him. The marriage happens then six months into the marriage, you are already depressed and stressed out , the next minute you are requesting for Divorce. Let them go when you know they can't honor and respect you. The right man , who will compliment and not compete with you will finally knock at your door. 

Don't allow this society's pressure lead you to your doom! Whatever age you are, God can bless you with marriage . Nowadays you hear people using Oheneyere Gifty Anti as an example for not giving up on your values and goals and also a measure of God's faithfulness and perfect time for our lives! Don't rush or else you will crush! A lot of people have rushed into marriages, some are seeking for divorce, others are enduring for their children’s sake. Note this , MARRIAGE IS TO BE ENJOYED, NOT ENDURED! 

Be careful who you listen to! The same people becoming a pain in the neck for you to rush into marriage will be the same people to laugh and gossip behind your back when that marriage fails! Love your life and live it well. 

LIFE IS YOU and GOD! People have OPINIONS but GOD has the DIRECTION ! 

Go through the process of Waiting, build your life and the man meant for you will come your way.  Anytime you are asked "WHEN WILL YOU MARRY " just say "GOD IS THE GIVER" to shut them up. Stay blessed, live, laugh and love ! 

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