LONELINESS IS NOT A PRE-REQUISITE FOR RELATIONSHIP

Heya peeps, how are y'all doing?

Awwww gone were the days when you used to receive that special call, messages, care and attention from a unique person but now things have changed. You keep staring at your phone if you will receive that special call but nothing keeps coming. That feeling, atmosphere and state is no more, now you are single.

Been in a relationship feels great but it has to be the right person with right motives: the one who truly compliments you. Do you miss been in love? Oooucchh I guess you do, been in love is so wonderful and special. Have you ever thought about why you are single now? About why you keep saying “NO” to those guys who keep proposing to you?

The answer is simple; it’s either you don’t want to repeat those same mistakes or you’ve discovered yourself and now you deserve the best. It could be other reasons too but whatever the reason is stick to your convictions. Don’t allow your emotions to lead you into a new relationship that you will regret for the rest of your life. Continue to take your time, relax, groom yourself and the right love will surely emerge.

Sometimes when you look at peoples’ love life, you might be tempted to say “YES” to anybody whiles they don’t deserve your love. Don’t let the pressures around lead you into making hasty decisions. The feeling is natural…. “Missing been in love” but stick to your convictions. Who doesn’t like been in love, everybody does!! The moment your partner isn’t genuine, you miss the beauty of real  love., That love turns into hate or something else.

Therefore, be grounded in your convictions and make the BEST decision for yourself and children to be. Let them have a beautiful, welcoming family that will last forever but it all depends on your decisions and choice. Accept that feeling “I miss been in love” but it shouldn’t lead you in making stupid decisions. The feeling is natural; embrace it,never feed it to grow, let it remain just a feeling. Be wise!! #timewithPrissy #campustodaynews.com

Code of LOVE

Hey peeps, make today count

A lot of people misunderstand the code of love. Love isn't something you start feeling immediately you set eyes on a person, love isn't when he or she makes your heart skip a beat like we used to say in letters back in high school. You would probably die in seconds, but let's take a look at love from both the realistic and Biblical view. 

Love is more than holding hands and kissing at the beach, it is more than sex. If you think you are in love because of how you feel when you kiss him or her, then my brother or sister you are feeling something else. The reason why a lot of relationships are ending sooner than expected are results of these fantasies and misconceptions of love.

I am sorry to break it to you but in the subject of love, you won't always feel loved because sometimes our feelings deceive us a lot. For instance: Some people go the extra mile to get a particular food just because they feel like eating it. Also, some pregnant women find dust to be sweet , this alone tells you not to always rely on the judgement of your "feelings".

There will be times you will feel as if you are no longer needed, other times too, you will feel like you never married your partner.  This proves to you that feelings are always temporary so don't love like a grade one kid who thinks that when someone sits by you in class, they are your boyfriend or girlfriend. 

Love is beyond what you think, yes the moments where you lie in the sofa insulting your partner quietly to yourself will come. This is why it takes more than love to be in love. 

Love requires a heart that can entertain the childish attitude of the other, a heart that cares and forgive. Don't think his or her face will look handsome or beautiful to you forever even after sleeping on the same bed and living in the same house for several years. No! After a few years, they will start looking old and annoying but that Is when your love is tested. Love is a rich union,  full of blessings and glory with respect to Biblical perspective as God demonstrated His love to us by giving up His only begotten son proving to us how powerful love is.

It is a blessing to have a wife or husband, someone to reason with and share ideas with. Love is wonderful, something you will never understand when you look at it from the perspective of fun, lust and pleasure. 

Get the code of love right! #timewithPrissy #campustodaynews.com

It Takes More Than Love

Hey peeps, have a lovely day.

I have discovered that love doesn't guarantee the success of a relationship. Love cannot help you stick to one person all years

round, and on the other hand, cheating isn't always a product of not loving your partner. In fact, loving someone doesn't guarantee not falling in love with any other person.

 Relationships work out mostly because of our head not our heart, it work out because of our emotional maturity, empathetic

intelligence and self discipline because time will come when you'll see more beautiful, handsome,romantic,intelligent, sexy,rich, curvy and God fearing people than the one you're in a

relationship with. In those times, love will not help you, self control will help you, emotional intelligence will come to your rescue, commitment will keep you going. With those

characteristics, no matter how you feel for someone else, the person you're committed to will rank first in your life. 

You think happily married people don't see better people than the ones they

married? You think they don't feel funny sometimes? You think they don't catch feelings They do! But understanding that commitment is greater than feelings is the great arsenal that do destroy that impulse. You can fall in love with anyone, but building a relationship takes absolutely more than what attracted you to them. It takes more than love. We are too fond of loving when it's convenient, when it's sweet. We are too fond of loving when love is there but that can only last for just the first 3-6 months of the relationship. 

After then, you'll realise that the feelings have dropped, it's now your responsibility to make it

work, not love's responsibility. Relationships cannot be ready made. You have to build it and it's never always about love, it requires commitment, it requires intelligent. On the long run in marriages, it's not just love that keeps them together forever, it's determination and commitment. Everyone fall in love, it takes little or no effort to do that. But staying in love? Building a relationship? Only the strong and committed ones do that. That's why we must find that one person and commit to that one,

Discipline yourself, bridle your emotions.

 Building a relationship is hard work, it's like building a career, It's like pursuing a dream. It's always tough, at some point it will be so bitter but you can make it work by putting your heads together, you can scale through the trying time by being focus and committed. The kind of love that attracts two people together is not the kind of love that will keep them together. Be emotionally strong! Be self disciplined. Sticking to one person is not natural,you must develop yourself to do that. It works great and perfect with people of like minds, people of the same believes, people that share the same school of thought. 

# Buildyourself# BeDisciplined# StayCommitted # Trust God.

Mr. & Mrs. Right creation on progress by You.... 

Stay Blessed! #timewithPrissy #campustodaynews.com

 

Valentine Chronicles

Bloody Knife

Hello peeps, it's just a day to Valentine's Day, I hope you've picked up your broken pieces from the previous one and have become a better person now.

As you bleed, let every drop of blood be a lesson you have learnt from the past. Relationship is meant to shape, groom and help you enter marriage as an armed soldier going to war and sooo sure that you will bring victory because you have all the skills and weapons to overcome , but if it leaves you hanging, clean your bloody knife. Never allow your bloody knife to cause you to do more harmful things.

A bloody knife will one day be a clean knife for restoration. Broken hearts happen but never allow yours to do evil or make you take your life. To have life after life's cruel misfortunes is still a blessing for impact to be made.

You may be heartbroken, rejected and deceived by your partner, lover or friend but that's not the end of your life.

Did he promise to wed you but ended up marrying your friend? Did she cheat on you with her ex? How bloody is your knife now? All these things happen to make us face and believe the reality of life and cause a change to it. Your knife might be bloody today but it won't remain stained forever.

Pick up your broken pieces today and make good use of your life! It's time to bounce back and prove yourself. You can shine no matter the afflictions, no matter how bloody your knife is, there is still hope of cleansing and perfection. Stand out, make impact and let your broken heart be a story of restoration for others. #timewithprissy @campustodaynews 

Don't Forsake The Works Of Your Own Hands

Hey lovely peeps, it's a glorious Sunday, arise and shine.

Then in Psalm 138 : 8 , the Lord will perfect that which concerneth me, thy mercy O Lord endureth for ever :forsake not the works of thine own hands . As I began to meditate, these questions popped up "Could it be a lot of people have forsaken the works of their own hands to pursue other things that will give them more money and good life? "Could it be a lot of people are suffering because they have shifted away from their purpose and doing their own thing" "Could it be people are now focused on the wrong things " because the Word says "He will Perfect that which concerns you and added "forsake not the works of your own hands" meaning as you present what he's already given to you , he multiplies for you!

 As you present your purpose to him, he creates paths of fulfillment for you ! As you focus on the works of your  own hands, as you focus on that vision he has rooted deep in you, he perfects it for you because it concerns Him as much as you're concerned! Are you in your purpose? As the disciples in Mathew 14 presented the five loaves of bread and two fishes, He blessed them and they multiplied 🤔.....you need to present what He's given to you so He perfects it for you !

Whatever God has given to you to do on this earth, pursue it diligently and He will perfect that which concerns you.....don't neglect your gifts, your passions, your goals.....don't deviate from what you're supposed to do! Don't allow the pressures in this world make you pursue something out of your purpose....if that happens , you will never breakthrough! Breakthroughs happen when you don't forsake the works of your own hands !!!

It's the blessings of the Lord that makes a person rich and add no sorrows to it. The absolute difference between worldly breakthrough and Godly breakthrough. If you breakthrough His way, no sorrows attached.

Mrs Amankwa Life Pills part 1

Hey peeps, hope y'all doing great today?

Marriage is good and honourable; I recently celebrated eleven years of good marriage although there has been ups and downs. Good marriages exist and my marriage is a testimony. I have realized that what has really sustained my marriage for 11years and still counting is this life pill I'm about introducing to you all. 

Communication is a vital tool in a relationship. With it you can build up your relationship or destroy it. In courtship both partners must seek to build and FURTHER DEVELOP their communication skills very well, so they know and understand each other.  This skill if well developed, will prevent 50% of misunderstanding in relationships and marriages.

Men and women communicate differently by virtue of how God has programmed them. They are wired differently. They do not think, speak or act the same way in response to issues. Both sexes do not send, receive and process information  in the same way because while men view the world from the mental level women view it from an emotional level. They can have the same information and yet interpret it differently.

Communication problems in relationships are common. This phrase "I do not understand him (or her)" is very common. Knowing how to communicate is critical for young people who want their relationship to stand the chance of succeeding to marriage and being happy. #timewithPrissy #campustodaynews .com

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Understanding The Opposite Sex

Hey peeps, it's the blessings of the Lord that makes a person rich and add no sorrows to it. Always seek the Lord's blessings.

A man's need is different from a woman's need therefore your ability to discover each others need will go a long way to sustain the relationship and marriage. Sometimes lovers or couples treat each other based on their needs, not according to the needs of the other because they think their needs are the same as the other. That's wrong! 

The fact that you love gifts doesn't mean your partner also loves gifts. You will buy gifts for the person but wouldn't feel fulfilled until you hit his/her needs. Sometimes I hear partners say "he or she doesn't appreciate what I do for him or her" it's not that he or she doesn't appreciate what you do for him or her but you haven't satisfied them with what they need. If you love gifts, find what your partner has interest in before carrying out any surprise for them. It could be the person loves quality time so no amount of gift will please the person until you spend quality time with him or her.

Now, to the men;

Women love it when you notice changes in their lives. It could be a new hairstyle, new shoe or dress; the moment you comment on the new change, they feel satisfied because it makes them think you always care and notice everything about them. Women love to talk; they just want you to listen at that moment, not desiring for any advice. They love appreciation, care and attention. Your ability to know the opposite sex will help your relationship and marriage to succeed and flourish.

To the women; 

Men love women who are neat and submissive. It makes them feel they are in charge and also, very happy everything is in order. Men love it when their women are industrious, not lazy and always demanding for stuff. Men need women who are respectful and generous, not always nagging but the one who understands them and what they do.

Understanding the Opposite Sex is a sure way to build successful relationships and marriages. Be informed! #timewithprissy #campustodaynews.com

Nothing Can Dim Your Light

Hey peeps, it's a beautiful day.

Purpose is very deep. Nothing can stop it , not pain, betrayal, set backs among others. Purpose is rooted deep in your Spirit, it doesn't acknowledge pain, fear, doubts, betrayals etc all it sees is Glory, higher heights, taking over etc. that's why the enemy came to steal, destroy and kill.

 The only moment you can't fulfill your purpose is when you're dead. People who are purposeful are always chased with a lot of tragedies, set backs just to steal away their attention, destroy their strength and kill their soul but you can see such people never give up no matter what they encounter.

 In Mathew 14, when Jesus heard John d Baptist had been beheaded, he left to a deserted place to be alone but when He saw the multitudes approaching him, He had compassion and healed them. Afterwards he performed another greater miracle...feeding five thousand people with five loaves of bread n two fishes. His LOSS, His PAIN still couldn't stop Him from carrying out His PURPOSE!

Nothing can stop you from achieving your goals if only you FOCUS on Him! The enemy will try but it won't get you once you're in God. Until it succeeds in killing you, that's when purpose die but that can't happen when you're connected to your source of life Jesus Christ! This day be inspired nothing can dim your light !

White Sheet

Lovely peeps, as we've entered this new month of February, walk in obedience to the Will of God concerning your life.

              

 Most ladies when asked about the kind of guy they want without thinking twice will always say "I want a God-fearing or a Godly man" 

This answer given by ladies always makes me wonder in wonderland who a Godfearing guy is?  Is it the one who is always fasting and praying? or Is it the guy who is always in church? 

Ladies, you got it all wrong. The fact that he goes to church doesn't mean he is Godly, it goes beyond that. Also, if he fast, it doesn't mean the fact that he can fast makes him faithful. 

A faithful, Godly man is the one who will lead you in your walk with God, protect your purity and will show you why God didn't want you to settle with the past guys if there were any. 

Also, he is able to resist temptations that stirs up certain emotions and applies self control, he will always make sure that both of you don't compromise on your Godly principles and values! 

Are you always sure the criteria you  use "I want a man that fears God" and the guys you choose are really God-fearing, looking at the qualities stated above?. 

Any relationship that is not holy and pure in the eyes of God doesn't please Him. Let's be wise, live right and please God in our relationships. #timewithPrissy @campustodaynews