A lot of people misunderstand the code of love. Love isn't something you start feeling immediately you set eyes on a person, love isn't when he or she makes your heart skip a beat like we used to say in letters back in high school. You would probably die in seconds, but let's take a look at love from both the realistic and Biblical view.
Love is more than holding hands and kissing at the beach, it is more than sex. If you think you are in love because of how you feel when you kiss him or her, then my brother or sister you are feeling something else. The reason why a lot of relationships are ending sooner than expected are results of these fantasies and misconceptions of love.
I am sorry to break it to you but in the subject of love, you won't always feel loved because sometimes our feelings deceive us a lot. For instance: Some people go the extra mile to get a particular food just because they feel like eating it. Also, some pregnant women find dust to be sweet , this alone tells you not to always rely on the judgement of your "feelings".
There will be times you will feel as if you are no longer needed, other times too, you will feel like you never married your partner. This proves to you that feelings are always temporary so don't love like a grade one kid who thinks that when someone sits by you in class, they are your boyfriend or girlfriend.
Love is beyond what you think, yes the moments where you lie in the sofa insulting your partner quietly to yourself will come. This is why it takes more than love to be in love.
Love requires a heart that can entertain the childish attitude of the other, a heart that cares and forgive. Don't think his or her face will look handsome or beautiful to you forever even after sleeping on the same bed and living in the same house for several years. No! After a few years, they will start looking old and annoying but that Is when your love is tested. Love is a rich union, full of blessings and glory with respect to Biblical perspective as God demonstrated His love to us by giving up His only begotten son proving to us how powerful love is.
It is a blessing to have a wife or husband, someone to reason with and share ideas with. Love is wonderful, something you will never understand when you look at it from the perspective of fun, lust and pleasure.
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