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The simplest definition for relationship per my understanding is the “state of connection or been connected”. You don’t begin a relationship with someone unless you are already connected to the person.

You relate with your family because there is already a “blood connection”; you relate with your friends because of “common interest connection” as well as you relate with God due to “Spirit connection”. Finally, you relate with boyfriend/girlfriend or husband /wife due to “purpose connection” therefore you need to discover the “agent of connection” before the relationship can start.

The question is “what connects you to that man/woman? If you realize that, what connects you and the person you have interest in is other than PURPOSE, then that cannot lead to marriage in a Godly function.

The only connection that leads to being husband/wife is Purpose so before you even decide to begin a relationship that leads to marriage, you first need to know your purpose, your need to know the timing for your purpose and relationship- get your timing right.

Relationship is a journey to the land of marriage which involves commitment and responsibility. Therefore, not every guy/lady is qualified for this journey because some have made up their minds not to marry or not to commit to one lady/gentleman. In view of this, you have to be vigilant and careful in your choice of guy/lady to start this journey with. If you detect he/she is irresponsible and not committed, it's a sign of unreadiness on their part, meaning he/she is in for the fun and not for the purpose of that journey.

Any guy/lady who is not ready to commit is unworthy of a relationship. Never entertain such people or else you will end up heart broken and time wasted! If they are not ready for a commitment, it is better for them to be single than be in a relationship and waste others time. It is even serious when a lady gives out her body to a guy, he will use and later dump her.

Be vigilant, it's not anybody you should be in a relationship with. Accept the ones who are matured in wisdom& knowledge, responsible and committed, they can take you to the land of marriage