CHRISTMAS BREAK

Great is thy faithfulness, morning by morning new Mercies we see!!! Shalom peeps.

It’s the end of the year; the good Lord has been faithful for seeing us through. So many things happened but we are still alive. We all are waiting to celebrate the King of Kings, our Lord Jesus Christ on the 25^th, how Glorious that day will be!!

Christmas is about love, thanksgiving and sharing of gifts not only to our loved ones but people in need too. As the year is coming to an end, it’s my prayer we all shall witness 2016, move from Grace to Grace and succeed in all our endeavors.

I thank God for using me to reach out to the world, impacting and touching lives through this blog. There is a lot to do for mankind but one step at a time. It’s Christmas and I want you to know, you can become whatever you desire to be if only you believe in yourself and have God- the one who bless our plans. In you is a mighty ocean that needs to gush out and overflow, don’t belittle yourself. You have a lot to give to the world if only you will believe in yourself that “YOU CAN”.

I’m breaking for Christmas, will continue blogging in the year 2016….hurrayyyyy!!!! Trust God, believe in yourself and you shall do greater exploits.

 I’m ending this year with a power-packed conference by my ministry, True Worship Sanctuary (TWS) “DOREA EXPLO CONFERENCE” to be held in Ghana from 21st-26^th December, Knust. I invite everybody to this power-packed conference.

I wish y’all the best as the year ends and I know 2016 will be Glorious and full of many great accomplishments. Be blessed as you break for this Christmas, be focused, love your life, spend time with the family and don’t forget to keep on living for Christ.

If my blog has also blessed your life, don’t hesitate to let me know. I love y’all…… Merry Christmas and A Happy New Year!!!!!!

Always remember God first- stay blessed!!

Nhyira.

Seeking For Love& Affection???

Hey peeps...... let's be thankful for the Lord is good. He has seen us through from January-December, magnify His Holy Name!!

You love, love& love and receive nothing in return; you feel like you have given out enough and it’s time to receive back. Well, that won’t happen because people are not like you. Sometimes you feel unloved, uncared for especially when you are down and you want people to love you the same way you’ve been doing for them. Hmmm you have given out so much love you now want to be at the receiving end.

Now, you feel disappointed, discouraged and hurt because what you expected from the people you love was never met. Well, I have good news for you; don’t be dismayed, sad or hurt for God’s love for you is more than what human beings can offer. Since you don’t see HIM physically, you think you need a ‘physical’ being to show you love and affection.

The enemy usually uses this pot hole as a stronghold to destroy your life. You begin to reach out, do more, just to get people to also love you!! It’s not worth it dear; the love of Jesus is what you need and since you have it, you have EVERYTHING!! The devil will always try to make you feel you lack something which you already have.

This Christmas season, don’t waste your time searching for love, for you are already loved by Jesus and that should be ENOUGH!! Stop moving from one guy/lady to another because you feel incomplete, unloved or uncared for. I quite remember when a lady called me last week and said “Nhyira I feel unloved, rejected and uncared for, my family doesn’t care at all whether I have eaten, in pain or troubled. All they do is just give me money, no calls or messages to check up on me. I keep moving from one guy to another when their love is not enough and she burst out crying”

I told her “she doesn’t need her family’s love to feel complete for she is already complete. She should start loving herself, that will build her confidence and she wouldn’t need a guy to make her feel loved. Also, if her family is not showing her love, she should teach them how to love; she should start what she expects from them, the calls and messages”. Then she began to smile J. These are the kind of situations that result some people into bad companies.

Jesus has already made you WHOLE&COMPLETE if your situation is similar to the lady who called me, He says cast all your burdens on Him, for He cares for you. Jesus loves you; appreciate His love in your life. Stop wasting your thoughts on things that really drains you….. Even if people don’t call or message to check up on you, you still have JESUS!!! YOU still have those few loyal friends who always stick by you, appreciate their LOVE and you’ll know, indeed you’re LOVED&CARED FOR!!!

You may be born into a family which is full of Crap, mischief, disunity and disloyal people; one trouble to another, no love but always hatred. Don’t worry, there is a reason for that- so that you’ll appreciate what is called “LOVE”. Focus on the love Jesus has for you and don’t allow the family mess to weigh you down. It’s really disheartening to be in a family where there is no love or care but Jesus got you, the ministry you are in and the few loyal friends you have, all gat your back!! Focus on their love& care, and you shall forever enjoy the ‘Joy’ of the Lord which is your strength.

I know one day you’ll build a happy, joyful family since you never really got that opportunity as a child. You have the power to change that bad situation in the family; don’t be like them, continue to love in your own way. Is only God who teaches us how to love through the Holy Spirit! You have to know the God of love to know the love of God.

It’s Christmas; do something new- Appreciate loved ones and stop seeking for love and affection. Don’t feel left out or alone, look unto Jesus, remember His birth& the cross and know, He cares for you even if nobody does!!! Enjoy this Christmas feeling loved, whole, complete and no more searching/seeking for love& affection- you are already LOVED!!!

Always remember God first- stay blessed!!

Nhyira.

No Child Yet???

hey peeps.....the season of Christmas brings all families together to share love, make yours count!!

Marriage is beautiful, Godly and awesome but it loses these qualities when troubles set in. Some of these troubles take away the beauty of marriage and replace it with pain and hatred. Imagine been married for just five years and there is no child yet, that’s the dilemma every couple wants to escape. Why do we keep defining marriage per children, it’s like without children there is no marriage, that’s so wrong and absurd. Children are a blessing from God so if it’s not your time to conceive, just relax and wait on God.

Many times when people marry and there is no child yet, the marriage begins to fall apart. So many questions pop up especially the woman….. Am I barren? Or is my husband who can’t produce? Is he having low sperm count? All these questions are unnecessary since it will keep weighing you down. When these things happen especially in Africa, the in-laws basically the husband’s mother starts to feed her son with bad ideas to get another woman instead of praying for them.

This unpleasant situation takes away the joy in the marriage since we keep on defining marriage per children, and the joy is replaced with sadness, pain and hate. The husband begins to blame the wife for infertility and the wife also does same. 

One thing I know is human beings can’t manufacture babies: it’s Divine. God gives children so couples experiencing this kind of situation have to unite and pray than to give in to worry. I know it is not easy but the enemy is very skillful to make you forget what you have (your wife/husband) and rather focus on what you don’t have (child). 

If you are reading this, and  going through this kind of mess, kindly awake from your sleep. Unite with your husband/wife and pray like never before. Even if the doctor has declared you can’t give birth, don’t lose Hope, the doctor is not God-He has the final Say!!! What did Hannah (1 Samuel 1) in the bible do when she wasn’t conceiving?? After crying and murmuring for months, she arose from her pain and went straight into the temple to pray to God-the giver of children.

After what she did, she conceived and gave birth to Samuel, the prophet. God’s timing is the best and as such must be respected. Husbands need to support their wives emotionally at this moment so as wives, you both need each other to survive. Abraham waited and never gave up till Sarah conceived at an old age; don’t give up into pressure and bad voices around you.

Stay focus, depend on God and your prayers shall be answered. Enjoy this CHRISTMAS knowing that ALL HOPE IS NOT LOST!!! IF Sarah and Hannah conceived so can you all. God never Fails or disappoint His children. To everything on this earth, there is time and season; it’s your TIME&SEASON NOWWW!!!!

Always remember God first- stay blessed!!!

Nhyira

How to Handle A 'Woman/Wife' Who Has Been Raped Before- Dr Humphrey

Hey peeps....hope y'all doing great!!!

For women who have been raped before, experience psychological, emotional, physical and horrible nightmares. They consistently have nightmares and the fear that every sexual activity is painful. Before they say Yes to a man to accept relationship, they have their own experience of men; every man is wicked and inconsistent because of what happened to them. The degree of hatred in their heart is based on who raped them; fathers, uncles, family friends, strangers (armed robbers, gang rape). 

The degree of pain decreases as it goes down to their peers. For a woman to be raped is almost unforgiveable; common characteristics of women raped are fear, insecurity, unforgiveness not against those people in particular but against every man. After that incident, there is no confidence, faith and believe in any man. 

They live a defensive/vulnerable life; some decide to fight back, others become vulnerable and sex addict. Whatever class the lady belongs to, they become anti-social, deviation from the normal process a lady should go through especially when they were young. In that case, they should consider social defect; some goes into drugs, alcohol, others their faith especially the Christians and embrace occultism. Others also choose to do nothing, everything goes.

Eventually, when a man wins the heart of a woman, he has to be sure who he is going in for. If he really knows he is a victim of rape, he should know what he’s going in for. But in entertaining or absorbing all the heat, the only solution that works is when the man/husband is a Christian and decide to get her born- again, the Holy Spirit heals the person’s heart(2Corinthians 5:17). Any solution which is used apart from generally accepting Christ will not work; even the therapies and advice from words do not work.

Rape is not just a sin against their bodies, but covers their rightful soul with total darkness which counseling and therapies cannot, except the Power of the Holy Spirit. Afterwards, the man/husband should adapt lifestyles that will suit her change; be willing to educate the wife about sex even before their first courtship. But once in a while, we expect the husband to take an active role literally teaching the wife life itself all over again including “why every man is not a monster but some men are just lost, revenge is not the right thing but those men need salvation”.

And most importantly, the husband must be able to exclude his wife from old friends especially those that have negative influence on her otherwise all his efforts to bring her positively back will be neutralized by negative friends’ advices. (Proverbs 4:23-26). Men handle your wives with care, love and respect.

My heart goes out to any woman who has been raped before; it’s not over, don’t give up on your life but make it better and the best. “let’sfightagainstRape”

Always remember God first-stay blessed!!

Nhyira.