Marriage
is beautiful, Godly and awesome but it loses these qualities
when troubles set in. Some of these troubles take away the beauty of marriage
and replace it with pain and hatred. Imagine been married for just five years
and there is no child yet, that’s the dilemma every couple wants to escape. Why
do we keep defining marriage per children, it’s like without children there is
no marriage, that’s so wrong and absurd. Children are a blessing from God so if
it’s not your time to conceive, just relax and wait on God.
Many times
when people marry and there is no child yet, the marriage begins to fall apart.
So many questions pop up especially the woman….. Am
I barren? Or is my husband who can’t produce? Is he having low sperm count? All these
questions are unnecessary since it will keep weighing you down. When these
things happen especially in Africa, the
in-laws basically the husband’s mother starts to feed her son with bad ideas to
get another woman instead of praying for them.
This unpleasant
situation takes away the joy in the marriage since we keep on defining marriage
per children, and the joy is replaced with sadness, pain and hate. The husband
begins to blame the wife for infertility and the wife also does same.
One thing
I know is human beings can’t manufacture babies: it’s Divine. God
gives children so couples experiencing this kind of situation have to unite and
pray than to give in to worry. I know it is not easy but the enemy is very
skillful to make you forget what you have (your wife/husband) and rather focus
on what you don’t have (child).
If you
are reading this, and going through this kind of mess, kindly awake
from your sleep. Unite with your husband/wife and pray like never before. Even if
the doctor has declared you can’t give birth, don’t lose Hope, the doctor is
not God-He has the final Say!!! What did Hannah (1 Samuel 1) in the bible do
when she wasn’t conceiving?? After crying and murmuring for months, she arose
from her pain and went straight into the temple to pray to God-the giver of
children.
After what
she did, she conceived and gave birth to Samuel, the prophet. God’s timing is
the best and as such must be respected. Husbands need to support their wives
emotionally at this moment so as wives, you both need each other to survive. Abraham
waited and never gave up till Sarah conceived at an old age; don’t give up into
pressure and bad voices around you.
Stay focus, depend on God and your prayers
shall be answered. Enjoy this CHRISTMAS
knowing that ALL
HOPE IS NOT LOST!!! IF Sarah and Hannah conceived so can you
all. God never Fails or disappoint His children. To everything on this earth,
there is time and season; it’s your TIME&SEASON
NOWWW!!!!
Always remember God first- stay blessed!!!
Nhyira
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