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Monday, 31 August 2015

Never Marry A Man Without A Vision- LETTER FROM KEZIAH



Marriage! Marriage! Marriage!
I wish I had waited, taken my time and married the one who really compliments me. Why am I saying this? I’ve been married for the past twelve years and I really regret this twelve years of marriage! A man without vision is the worst kind to marry. When I met my husband, the way he talked made me realized he had no vision so I thought after marriage, he will mature and make plans for himself little did I know things will never change.
My husband has never ever discussed what he really wants to achieve since we got married; all he does is think and talk about his family and friends’ prosperity, his future does not count. We keep moving from one house to another, sometimes no money to pay for our rent and we have four children: Caleb, Gideon, Richmond and Desmond. He keeps dropping jobs and likes following his friends. I’ve been paying for our rent, put food on the table, pays the children school fees as well as utility bills- infact I do everything. Now, I’m tired and fed up, he has no goals in life.
Recently, I told him to get money so we could buy half plot of land to build our own house and all he said was “Eeeiiiii it’s not easy to build a house”. What kind of man is this, always negative about progress. When will he make plans for himself? When will he realize his childrens’ future are his responsibility? When will he stop focusing on peoples’ prosperity and think about his? I’m really fed up and now I think I want to end this marriage. I advise anybody reading this “NEVER MARRY A MAN WITHOUT VISION”. They are NOTHING and keep building castles in the air!!
Never rush into marriage; be wise in your journey to marriage, take your time, don’t allow only love to lead but PURPOSE too. If you love him but he has no vision, leave before you tie the knot or else you’ll suffer. I need HELP!! 
Nhyira

Saturday, 29 August 2015

Enter The Throne Of Grace



Some people never get to the resting point thus counseling due to break ups. Through your journey to marriage, you might not get to the final destination which is marriage and could change the course of your life. Most break ups lead to broken hearts but how do one overcome such an event in their lives? Broken heart is real and as such needs much attention. I can boldly say you need God to help you overcome your pain, your broken heart. Enter the Throne of Grace simply means boldly go to the Father in PRAYER to obtain Mercy in times of need!!I love this song “Prayer is the master key”. Prayer is indeed the masters’ key in unlocking all hidden treasures.
Is the key in finding your way back to the normal life you used to live.
Is the key in opening many closed doors in your life.
Is the key in helping you find happiness again.
The key in healing your broken-heart.
Prayer answers all problems.
In the book of Numbers 14:28 I quote “As truly as He lives saith the Lord, as you have spoken in His ears, so will He do to you”. Whatever you want God to do for you, just say and believe it and He shall surely do it.
Prayer is the foundation in which you should build your life upon. Let your life be full of prayer and allow God to do everything for you for your human strength can’t. Enter the THRONE OF GRACE to obtain mercy in this time of need.

I made God my refuge through prayer; I told him all the pains I was going through and how I needed him to help me to deal with my pain. You might think it was easy doing that: it wasn’t easy at all. But I realized that his strength was perfected in my weakness (2 Corinthians 12:9) so anytime I opened my mouth to pray, the right words just came out. The effectual fervent prayer of the righteous avail much; prayer is the tool in overcoming challenges in your life.
Some of you have not prayed before since you were born so you may be wondering how to go about it. Prayer is not something strange at all; it is an interactive or communicative moment between a person and God. If you’ve not prayed before, you can start by saying “God I’ve heard about you today and I want to draw closer to you. Please help me to pray henceforth. What you’ve just said is prayer and God has heard you. Henceforth, he shall show you how to pray and draw closer to Him. As time goes on, you’ll be made perfect in prayer, healed of your broken heart and you’ll also be a counselor to people suffering.
Always remember God first- stay blessed!!
Nhyira

Friday, 28 August 2015

DAILY MANNA



One of the decisions that helped me to forget my pain was the word of God. I became a committed child of God; always studying the word when I was less busy. I stopped talking to friends about him because the more I did, the more I loved and hated him at the same time. The bible became my DAILY MANNA... very comforting, inspiring and encouraging.
My favorite verses were Psalm 46:5 which says and I quote “God is in the midst of her, he shall help her and that right early”(KJV) and Mathew 11:28 “Come to me all who are labored and wearied and I’ll give you rest” (KJV). These verses motivated me each and every day.
So, my advice to you today is hold onto the word of God; let Him be your weapon, inspiration, comforter and advisor. It worked for me and He shall do the same for you for He never fails.
The bible serve as a mediator between God and you so the moment you begin to study, God reveals himself in so many ways to you; providing you with answers and directing your paths. In the book of Proverbs 3:5, it says and I quote “Trust in the Lord with thine heart, in all thy ways acknowledge him and he shall direct thy paths”. Is time you stop using your human strength to deal with your broken heart and turn to God for direction. He alone knows the best for you and only he can you trust for divine healing. I know what the Lord has done for me that’s why I’m acknowledging you to study His word.
The name of the Lord is a strong tower, the righteous run to it and is saved. You can be saved today if only you run to the tower of God which is the bible. The bible is full of encouragement, wisdom, directions among others.The book of 2 Timothy 3:16 talks about the bible being written by the inspiration of God and is useful for teaching the truth, rebuking error, correcting faults, and giving instruction for right living(GNB). What are you waiting for? Don’t wait for people, priests and other lesser gods to help you deal with your situation, just turn to the word of God and trust me, you shall be delivered.
Studying the word of God is in so many ways but whatsoever way you use, God shall hear you because he’s more concern about your heart. Let that broken heart find love again and that can be achieved through the studying of the word of God. Everything that you ask God, if you only believe, you shall receive it. (Mark 11:24.KJV).
In the book of Ephesians 3:20, it says and I quote “God is able to do exceeding and abundantly above all that we think or ask, through his son Jesus Christ” so don’t wait anymore, turn to his word and be healed.Broken- heart is a virus which needs anti-virus like the word of God; don’t let the virus get to the stage where it cannot be dealt with, like leading you to the psychiatric hospital. “Sometimes you become so stubborn that you refuse to go to the right path
Let the word of God henceforth be your DAILY MANNA and become one of your weapons to deal with your broken-heart. There is power in the word of God; after studying, you’ll feel relaxed and empowered. Sometimes I’ll just pick the bible, open to a verse and just be stirring at the words; my mind would be on him but my eyes stuck to the words. Later, I would come back to myself, pronounce the words for about five minutes, and close the bible and sleep. The kind of dreams I had after just looking into the bible were so terrific: that encouraged me to be committed in studying the word.
By starting, you might go through the same or different experience but if God knows that within your heart you want to be committed to his word, he’ll surely give you a motivating weapon that’ll help you to be committed more. You might be also saying within you that you’ve not read the bible before so how am I going to study and understand? Open your bible to Psalm 32:8 now, the Lord says “I will teach you the way you should go; I will instruct you and advice you”. The Lord is ever ready to advice you how to go about it so don’t wait anymore. He says he will teach you the way you should go; go about in dealing with your heart broken.
When Delilah betrayed Samson what did he do? He didn’t submit himself to pain, cries and sorrows; rather he found his way again through God. Even though he was blind, he was able to break the walls in the temple through Christ who strengthened him. This doesn’t mean you should also take revenge after the word of God has made you whole again. You can be an advisor to people who are also suffering from a break-up.
I’ve used Samson as an example because he also experienced a broken-heart but he didn’t allow that to mess up his life; he turned to God again for strength. Don’t wait any longer, turn to him for strength, and advise, wisdom and direction.
After Joseph had been betrayed by his brothers, what did he do? I n the book of Genesis 50:19-20, he said and I quote “And Joseph said unto them, fear not for am I in the place of God? But as for you, ye thought evil against me; but God meant it unto good, to bring to pass as it is this day, to save many people alive”(KJV). These words should inspire you that everything that’s happening to you has a purpose. Joseph after been hurt, broken-hearted and gone through much pains finally became the king of Egypt, saving his family from famine.
Maybe you’re also going through this situation to save much people alive: to help people to get their life back on track again as you are yearning to do.
In the book of Ecclesiastes 3:1, it says there’s time and season for everything; a time to cry and laugh. This is the time you’re crying but a time is coming that happiness and joy will be the food you’ll eat always. The word of God is made to comfort, direct, and instruct you. Don’t abandon it because you are hurt; for it is your true source of inspiration.
If I had abandoned the bible, I wouldn’t have been able to also advise you today to stick to the bible because I would have also found myself at either at the psychiatric hospital or any bad place.
Always remember God first- stay blessed!
 Nhyira

Thursday, 27 August 2015

Heal My Broken Heart Lord



Oooops is broken heart real? Have you experienced it before? Lol. Well I have experienced it before and it was terrible. 2012 was my worst year but I learnt my lesson through that. Broken heart is very broad, it could be from relationships, family and friends but I want to emphasize more on relationships.
I know some people have been betrayed, deceived and abandoned but I want to tell you that is not the end of your life. It’s painful, very sad but don’t allow that to destroy your life. Your life is important, God has given it to you so don’t allow your broken-heart to lead you to destruction.
I was once reading Bob Gass book entitled “Discovering your destiny: find out what you were born to be” and he said something in his book that inspired me to get over my pain. He said and I quote “Bitterness is like a chain around the neck of your potential; choking the life out of your freedom and joy, and making even the sweet taste of success turn sour in your mouth. Maybe you’ve been hurt, and you’re saying I’ll never forgive them unless they admit that they’ve done and ask for my forgiveness; what if they never do? Why should your happiness depend on their ability to do what’s right- especially if they’re not in the habit of doing it? You’re giving them too much power!
These words struck my heart that day and I decided to free my heart from the bondage it was in. I forgave him in my heart but decided not to talk to him again.
You might be in the same situation I experienced or worse than what I went through but I’m asking you this question “Is it worth  for you to destroy your life because of him/her? Does he/she deserve your love? Is his failing love so important than the life you have? After answering these questions, you’ll know that he/she doesn’t deserve the pain, tears and sorrows you’re going through. You can be healed if only you are willing to let go. I let go and am free, can you do the same?  Heal my broken heart Lord is a series I’m introducing that will emphasize on how the good Lord can help you overcome your pain, your BROKEN HEART!! Don’t miss this series….be on track.
Always remember God first- stay blessed!!
Nhyira

Tuesday, 25 August 2015

What Seed Are You Sowing?



“Whatever you sow shall you reap” has become a common adage but it is very insightful. My ladies, what kind of seeds are you sowing in terms of relationships and marriage? Any seed you sow must go with right motives or else the outcome will still be bad. Using the bible as a case study, Ruth sowed a selfless, dedicated and hardworking seed and got Boaz, a man who feared God in the book of Ruth. Ein the book of Esther, she sowed a virgious, wise and prayerful seed and got a King. Moreover, Rebecca sowed a humble and hardworking seed and got Isaac, a man after God’s heart. What seeds are you sowing? Abigail sowed a good seed, was very wise but married a fool Nabal because her priorities were wrong ‘money’. What are your priorities in a man? Will you be Batsheba who will expose herself and make men like David fall? Be careful of the seed you’re sowing as a lady because you’ll reap one day!!!
Set your priorities right too. Your seed will attract its kind but your priorities in men will determine your end! Be wise, sow the good seeds, set your priorities right and you shall attract and get the best man!!
Now, to the men, what seeds are you also sowing? Are you like David who chase after someone’s wife, killed the husband and married the woman or like Samson who because of beauty was betrayed by Delilah? Do you go in for things that do not belong to you or you are like Isaac who waited and sought his father’s help to get a good, hardworking and humble woman like Rebecca? Never rush men, take your time to choose women of substance!!! Don’t be deceived by Batsheba’s body or Delilah’s beauty and lies and at the end fall!!! Beauty is good but choose wisely, wait and choose women like Esther, Ruth, Hannah to mention but few. Your seeds and priorities will determine the women you will get attracted to and later marry!! Be wise!!
Always remember God first- stay blessed!!


 Nhyira