I Love Him BUT hE dRIVES mE cRAZY

hEY peeps.......it's another beautiful day, hope y'all are enjoying it!!

I have been in a state of wander, researching and praying for answers to something special and great in the lives of people. There is a great weapon that keeps bringing people down but the purpose of that weapon is to uplift, encourage, release stress, bring out inner qualities of people, and cause eternal joy. What at all is misleading this weapon in becoming dysfunctional? It keeps hurting, discouraging, and mistreating the people involved- the weapon of LOVE!!

Love is to be cherished and adored not to be looked down upon. Now, most people don’t believe in Love although it exists. Have you heard this saying before “I love him but he drives me crazy” How can love drive you crazy when it is supposed to make you feel special and comfortable? Are you sure you have found the right person who truly compliments you! 

It might be true you love him but why does he drive you crazy? Most times we fall in love with the people who can’t take us far and that love indeed drives us crazy. You might be in love with a guy who really takes good care of you but he is a player. This kind of love will surely drive you crazy because your love for the person is genuine but his isn’t. You might also be in love with a person who is either a drunkard or domestically abuse women. All these people can drive you crazy but what do you do when you think you truly love them?

One thing you should know is that love is complete when the receiver is just like the giver. So, if the receiver is not like the giver, how can it be love? These people you are in love with need help, in the form of prayers, counseling and rehab. They need to work on themselves, improve and change before you continue the relationship. If it continues to marriage, expect the worst from them therefore it is better you pause the relationship, they seek help and come back refined or you stop the relationship if they are unwilling to receive help.

If you are married and they are in that state, then they need Christ. Only Jesus Christ can save people from all problems. Pray for them, introduce them to Christ, go for counseling and surely things will turn good. What if he is already a Christian? Then they need counseling and prayers or else they will continue to drive you crazy but if they are unwilling to change, you should seek for guidance and counseling and know what to do next.

In the book of 1Corinthians 13: 4-7 “love is kind, does not envy, vaunt not itself, is not puffed up, don’t behave itself unseemly, not easily provoked, see not her own, think no evil, rejoice not in iniquity, but rejoice in the truth” Love is not selfish, it seeks the good of others. Love is committing oneself in providing the needs of a person without expectation because once there is expectation, it breeds disappointment.

Take heed to this advice or else you won’t find peace and joy in your relationships and marriages. Love shouldn’t drive you crazy rather makes you happy, fulfilled and peaceful.

Always remember God first- stay blessed!!

Nhyira