But
from the beginning of the creation God made them male and female. For this
cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and cleave to his wife; and they
twain shall be one flesh: so then they are no more twain, but one flesh” (Mark
10:6-8 KJV)
Ooops
anytime I read this verse I hear wedding bells ringing loud….marriage time and
it points out there is nothing like gay marriage in the eyes of God because he
created them male and female not female- female and male-male so be careful.
Lesbianism and homosexuality is an abomination in the eyes of God, therefore
seek help if you are in that act. God will have mercy on you if you seek Him
and He shall surely refine you!!
Marriage is good with the bed undefiled. Most people have
plans to get married; their wedding imaginations are so unbelievable but it
gets to a point where they begin to lose interest in marriage and their
imaginations die off. What at all has
been making people lose interest in marriage off late?
From
the scripture above, God is really interested in marriage; the two become one
flesh and live together. They leave their parents and become a different family
altogether; recently in-laws are really trespassing, kindly stay in your
limit and stop interfering in your children’s’ marriages. The name in laws
should even be changed to OUT-LAWS!
Well, I was having
a chat with a friend; suddenly she said she will never marry. I was astonished
and still couldn’t believe what she told me. I was about to ask her reasons for
such a decision when she burst out crying. After consoling her, she narrated
her story and it was really painful. A guy had broken her heart; two weeks to
their wedding, the guy secretly married another lady and she heard it on that
day when some of their friends who attended the wedding thought she was the
bride but to their amazement it was another lady. The guy had made different
wedding invitations and sent it to his family and friends. This is so absurd!!!
She
was really heart-broken that she still couldn’t believe the guy was capable of
doing that. Another female friend also told me she had lost interest in
marriage because her parent marriage is nothing to write home about. A marriage
full of pain, disgrace and emotional distress on the part of her mother: her
dad keeps abusing her mum emotionally and psychologically.
Moreover,
one of my male friends is not interested in marriage because of what he has
witnessed in other marriages. Many factors have led people to make decisions
out of the blue and it is really sad but my question is “should someone’s pain inflicted
on you or the bad things you’ve witnessed stop you from enjoying your bright
love future? Why should you think you’ll also go through that same experience
when you marry? Everybody and his/her destiny therefore, the fact that
someone is suffering in marriage doesn’t mean the same thing will happen to
you.
It
could be their decisions and choices that landed them into this bad fate but
that isn’t your portion. You learn from their mistakes and improve upon your
life and the choices you make. Marriage
is good and sweet so refrain from these sayings “I will never marry” when those thoughts emerge, you should know
it’s your emotions speaking to you not God. Resist those thoughts and embrace
the good ones, you shall surely marry,
Never
allow past hurts and people bad experiences to deter you from marrying and
having a beautiful family, your destiny is different from theirs but it all
depends on your decisions and choices. Depend on God, trust Him and allow Him
to direct your path and your ways shall be prosperous. Have a lovely day!!!
Always
remember God first- stay blessed!!
Nhyira
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