BE WISE&DECISIVE.....A LETTER FROM TRACY

Love,love,love, who can define love?Well I don't think I can but one thing I know about relationship is being wise and decisive because if you are not then you will only be a fool.When I say wise,I don't mean being selfish but been careful and watchful since you don't know when love turns into pain or hate.I met my boyfriend in level 100 @ University of Ghana campus legon.I am Tracy, 22years of age and  currently in level 300.When I was a fresher at the University,life was just fun not consequential and I didn't think about anything but my new found love.My boyfriend Wilberforce was caring,loving but very jealous and this caused a little bit of insecurity.His insecurity made him to be very controversial and I had to compromise all the time to the extent of shunning all my male friends and even my female friends he never liked.I did everything he liked but he never for once appreciated all my sacrifices and always did what I disliked.Well, because I stood for nothing, I felt for everything he did. Sometimes I will intentionally tell him "we should break up" he won't utter a word, leaves and never calls me until I call him back and apologize.I realized he didn't love me the way I did; when he offends me, he will never apologize but I have to apologize to him for his wrong done and make the relationship work. Mehnnn I was really a fool but now I am picking up my broken pieces to become a better lady again, the relationship is over: we dated for 3years. What I have learnt through Bishop Nhyira's blog is that, relationship is not about feelings but commitments,purpose and fulfillment of destiny. A guy or lady who will let you lose all your friends and loved ones is not worth dating or been around with, you have to be wise and decisive when taking this path of relationship or else you will lose everything.....I have lost the love my friends had for me "all in the name of been in love with Wilberforce". Ladies&Gentlemen, never compromise for something you don't like, both parties should sacrifice, it shouldn't always be one person! Be wise and decisive in dealing with people and never let a guy or lady think you are rich and independent or else he/she will never ever help you! Don't do stupid things thinking you are in love; love is not blind and does not make a person blind, LOVE rather helps a person to appreciate the other, brings out the best in both of you and helps you both to work on your weaknesses.BE WISE&DECISIVE!

Nhyira