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BE HUMBLE
After praying,
trusting God and your partner, and showing your unconditional love, the next
thing to do is to show humility. Showing humility and love during a
misunderstanding is vital. Humility makes an angry spirit calm because when you
are humble, your words are always refreshing.
James 4:10 talks
about humbling ourselves in the sight of the Lord, and He shall lift us up.
Humbling yourself in the sight of God makes God and your partner love you more,
cherish you and make you feel blessed and loved.
Be humble in the
way you talk, address issues, confront arguments, quarrels, and
misunderstandings in your relationship. Humility can take you far and as such,
it must not be taken for granted. Humility is a character that must be practiced
always in order for it to become a habit.
Learn to be
humble for humility goes with obedience and submissiveness. Being humble
requires you to be obedient and submit to your partner.
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SET A GOAL
A suffered-
relationship need not to happen again so what you’ve got to do is set a goal
this time. Don’t repeat the same standards you used therefore setting a goal
will help make things right and special. Now, make it a point to set a goal
every month which should be achievable- involve your partner so as to know what
he/she wishes to do that month.
This will help
you know how far the relationship can go and what you both can do. Also, write
down those you couldn’t achieve and make an effort to find ways to deal with
it. Don’t set goals that are too difficult for both of you to accomplish- it
should be simple. Always involve your partner so as to know his/her schedules,
what he/she is interested in doing that month and how you going to organize
your activities.
Setting a goal
in a relationship makes everything organized and planned; you don’t waste time
and resources on unnecessary things and that makes the relationship grow each
and every day since everything done is planned and new things are achieved
every month. Note this, let your goal be all round, not always emphasizing on
one thing. Let it cover all aspects of life; prayers, fasting, outing, church,
parties, educational tour, window shopping and among others.
Remember you are
building the relationship on the goals you set so if it’s always about
chilling, it wouldn’t be effective: let it be concise, interesting, informative
and educative. You can set a day out to educate yourselves; to learn new things
and add it to the ones you know. Be always objective in the goal, let it spice
the relationship and not make it dull or boring.
I know some
people have not practiced this before but I can say it works very much. There
are some times you feel like not doing anything and even your partner becoming
too boring for you- the old chats, messages, moves among others which makes you
bored sometimes. Setting a goal every month will prevent this boredom since new
things are been done and shall surely spice up the relationship.
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