Before you accept him into your life, you should know your role in the relationship/marriage.It is your responsibility to respect and submit to him whiles it is his responsibility to love you and make you be fulfilled maximizing the best in you.Why do i say so?In the book of Ephesians 5:25 i quote"Husbands,love your wives just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her to make her holy,cleansing her by the washing with water through the word and to present her to himself as a radiant church without stain or wrinkle but holy and blameless" so it is the man's responsibility to love you all your strengths and weaknesses just as he loves himself and make you feel satisfied. Now, your responsibility as a woman is to submit to him as Ephesians 5:22 says "Wives submit to your husbands". Men need respect and submission not love, the moment you love him more than he does, you are risking yourself and the relationship.If a man loves you more than you do, he will do whatever it takes to make you fulfilled and satisfied because it is his responsibility BUT if you love him more than he does, you will always be compromising,sacrificing and trying to make things work since that's not your responsibility: yours is to submit and respect him. For instance, if a man loves you so much,demands for sex and you disagree,he will find a good way to make the relationship work without sex because he loves you and respect your decision but imagine you love him more, you will end up compromising and going against your own values.It is in this regard God made the rule for the man to love you and for the woman to respect,submit and cherish that love the man showers her! Know your responsibility and play accordingly to prevent any breach of responsibility.
Nhyira
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