Journey of Relationship_ SELF EXAMINATION pt1

 When you are ready to start a journey either by air, sea or land, you need a vehicle. If your journey is on land, you need a car_ that's what I would like to use for this journey. Before starting the journey of relationship, you must be ready to start your journey well, otherwise you will get to a point in the relationship where you will lose control and that will lead to a break up.
.CAR
The first item needed for this journey is a car, which signifies your entire body. Are you physically, mentally, spiritually, psychologically, and emotionally matured to start the journey of relationship? You have to check all these important factors before you begin the journey. Remember a car with a faulty engine cannot take you far so you need a good engine.
 THE STRONG ENGINE
Once you have acquired your car,you need to check the engine to find out whether it is strong or weak.The strong engine used here symbolizes your HEART.A heart that is soft, easily hurt, full of mistrust, dishonest and can't endure pain shouldn't be used for this kind of journey.This journey requires a strong heart:full of compassion, love, trust, patience and endurance. Most relationships are in a mess due to issues of the heart.Those involved never checked their hearts whether it could endure the other person's character. Relationship that leads to marriage is a long journey; one needs a strong engine (heart), very enduring and easy to adapt to all kinds of roads (characters) before starting the journey. Once you've acquired the car and fixed the strong engine, you need fuel to enable the car to move.
THE FUEL  
  Fuel enables a car to travel wherever it wants to go, without it the car becomes immobile. Fuel used here refers to a job.Remember this journey of relationship is one that leads to marriage so you can't start while unemployed or else you become a burden to your partner.There are different kinds of fuel:diesel, petrol,gas.The different types represent the individual intellects; some are educated and others have their own vocation.One can start the journey with the needed fuel or purchase some and buy more as they move on.What this implies is that some people are already rich before starting this journey, others are not but get to the level of richness after the relationship has gotten to a higher stage therefore once you have something decently doing which is earning you a livelihood you can start. Watchout for self examination pt2

Nhyira