Dear Nhyira,
I’ve been following your blog and I want
to add more knowledge to your post concerning “why do we need a relationship?
I must say your blog is very educative and I wish the youth will not only read
but also practice it.
Nhyira, what connected me to my husband
when we first met was PURPOSE. I attended a business seminar and he was the
guest speaker. After his presentation, I asked him a mind blowing question “what
makes you a man and a manager of your firm?” He was really thrilled at this
question but after his answer, I realized he had a lot in him. I work in an I.T
Firm because I love computers: always want to discover new ways of programming
and he’s an I.T consultant in his own firm.
After
the Seminar, he approached me and smiled. We got talking and that led to us now
husband& wife!! We had similar purpose; to bring new methods, ideas,
approaches to this technological world. Purpose is the permanent connection
that binds marriage. We are always together working, it’s our hobby now. It wasn’t
my beauty, shape or the way I dressed that brought us together because these
things will definitely fade away. Relationship is the state of connection but
if the two people in love don’t find the right connection, it won’t last long. If
it is beauty, shape, dressing to mention but few that connects you two, what if
those things fade away, will you still love the person? All those things are
temporary but Purpose is permanent.
My husband and I are so happily married
for ten years and there hasn’t been a day for us to argue. He knows his roles
in the marriage so as long as he keeps performing his roles and I also do mine;
there is no room for argument. He loves me so much and I do too!! It’s better to
be connected to someone by purpose than anything else. We enjoy one thing; I.T and
we keep growing stronger every day by this bond God has given to us.
If
Eve was presented to Adam to be a HELP-MEET, then GOD indeed is WISE to make
PURPOSE the PERFECT Connector for Two SOULS to become One FLESH!! Young ones
make the best decision. Be Inspired as Nhyira will always say!!!
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