WhY Do We Need A RELATIONSHIP?

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Have you had this feeling before; you see two young people in love, you get this smiley face but the next moment, you hear they have broken up and there's this awkward feeling "what really happened". Did their love vanish or what? You tend to ask yourself many questions which all the answers seems futile. I recently discovered, the reason why many relationships are breaking us is due to wrong motives and wrong agent of connection. People are in a relationship for financial gain, sex, pleasure, peer pressures to mention but few. All these reasons or agent of connections have expiry date but there's only one that doesn't have expiry date because it can be passed on in the future to children- thus Purpose!

 The simplest definition for relationship per my understanding is the “state of connection or been connected”. You don’t enter a relationship with someone unless you are already connected to the person. You relate with your family because there is already a “blood connection”; you relate with your friends because of “common interest connection” as well as you relate with God due to “Spirit connection”. Finally, you relate with boyfriend/girlfriend or husband /wife due to “purpose connection” therefore you need to discover the “agent of connection” before the relationship can start.

The question is “what connects you to that man/woman? If you realize that, what connects you and the person you have interest in is other than PURPOSE, then that cannot lead to marriage in a Godly function. The only connection that leads to being husband/wife is Purpose! Common interest is friendship connection, blood is family connection so before you even decide to enter a relationship that leads to marriage, you first need to know your purpose, your need to know the timing for your purpose and destiny- getting your timing right, you can’t tell me a 10years old person who knows his/her purpose can enter a relationship.

 Now, you should also ascertain if that relationship is for purpose or not because you need to connect to that person sake of purpose. After knowing your purpose and timing and whether you need that relationship at that point in time, you need to also know the other person’s purpose if it compliments yours- not an opposite purpose. 

NB: Never enter a relationship because of your intense sexual, emotional drive because there will come a stage that your emotional drive will be heightened- that should not be the motive for the relationship but, the motive for the relationship should be to connect you to your helper for your God-given purpose!! You need a relationship because of Purpose!!

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ALWAYS REMEMBER GOD FIRST- STAY BLESSED!

NHYIRA