Nhyira, I was once reading a book which
talked about love languages but I never believed it till I got married. When dating,
I used to buy my fiancé gifts but all she would say was “thank you” but it wasn’t
from a cheerful heart; little did I know it wasn’t her love language.
I’ve been married
for five years now but it was o my second anniversary I discovered my wife’s
love language. During our second year of marriage, we became very close, more
than we were dating. I put my ego aside
and confided in her everything that bothered me and also, communicated my next
projects to her. During those times of quality communication, she became so
happy and lovely. I could see she was glowing every day. When I was on leave, I
will spend most of the time in the house and I realized that made her more
happy and lively.
I
then discovered my wife’s love language is quality time and communication, so all
those times I was buying her gifts, it was a waste. I wondered why I couldn’t find
out early and I realized I assumed for her, since I love gifts I thought that
will be her love language too. Sometimes
what you like will not necessary be what others like, take your time to study
them and find out what they truly love or like.
Now, I am a happy husband
and my marriage is flourishing with love, happiness, care, understanding and
respect. Always remember God first and stay blessed as Nhyira will say.
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