Dear Nhyira,
I’ve been in a
relationship for two years but I recently broke up with my girlfriend. Well,
some people might think I’m heartless but I made the best decision for her and
myself. I wish I never started if I had learned more about relationship and
life. I’m in level 300 and she is in level 200- both at Kwame Nkrumah
University of Science and Technology in Ghana; she is a medical science student
and I’m a psychology student. Tracy as I call her will graduate in four years
time and I would be graduating two years time.
Nhyira, I’ve realized in
two years time when I graduate, I’ve to do my national service for a year then I’ll
start job hunting which means after my national service, the following year
Tracy would be graduating as a medical doctor. The first thing after her
graduation would be marriage which I will not be financially sound by then to even rent a flat
house, purchase a car to make life comfortable for her.
Moreover, her family
will not permit their “doctor” daughter to live in a chamber and hall. All these
thoughts made me to lose myself because I was always thinking about how to make
life better for her therefore considering masters right from graduation which
is still impossible. I always thought I was in a race with other guys for her.
Due to this, I met her
and communicated these pertinent issues to her, she succumbed but felt hurt
because she loves me, still understood my decision. I still love her but it’s
better to be separated now than when we are both at our peak. If God wills and
we meet again single in the future, I wouldn’t mind marrying her.
Now, you could be in a
similar situation, it’s better to be out now than later. Be wise and make the
best decision!!!! Always remember God first and stay blessed as Nhyira will
say!!!
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